sad added a topic in Male to Female (MtF) Crossdressers DiscussionI'm married to a transgenderedI feel very sad, I am not accepting the fact that my husband has the brain of a woman. There is nothing femine about him. NOTHING! He is in therapy and I'm so affraid of him doing harmones. I've told him I wouldn't stay with him if he did. I really love him and I don't want to lose him. Is anyone else feeling this way? Our three boys found out as one of the boys that was staying with us walked in on him and moved out within two days. Our son told the other boys and my brother, but didn't think I knew about my husband doing this, so it's been really hard. I found out through my brother. It was very difficult for me. The boys fill betrayed that I didn't tell them and want us to tell our married daughter as well. When I found out they knew, I was so devestated and embarassed. My one son won't come around any more and wouldn't talk forever. I finally called him after he found out that I knew and said he wished we'd divorce because of my husband (which is their step-father). They really love him and said he'll always be dad, but it's very difficult for them as well. I guess they want our daughter (me & my husbands) to know about her dad and feel the pain that they have. HELP! I'm really struggling with this and I don't want to be without my husband. It's hard not to talk about this even though my husband has been going to therapy and hasn't dressed up for a long time. He's really struggling but is doing really well. Still afraid because I feel that I'm stopping him from being happy. I love him so much. I hate seeing him dressed as a woman. Can anyone help me or have you felt this way too?
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Valorie added a topic in Male to Female (MtF) Crossdressers DiscussionAgeI'm 57 yrs. old and don't think there is an age limit to feeling sexy by dressing in female clothing..what do you think? Any older cross-dressers out there that would like to chat can reach me @ sexyoldlife@Yahoo.com.
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Guest_Julie added a topic in Male to Female (MtF) Crossdressers DiscussionCrossdressingI definately like the way women's clothing feels. I'm mostly just into lingerie type clothing. I find it's comfortable and a nice change from the boring look and feel of male clothing. This is one of the reasons why I crossdress.
The other reason is what I would like to hear some input on. Maybe it's just because I'm young (22) but 95% of the reason why I crossdress is because I find it so darn SEXY. It turns me on so much to the point where it's all I can think about. When I put it on I become _so_ interested in meeting another guy whether he's into crossdressing or not.
For me I don't feel like I'm a woman trapped in a man's body. I don't feel like I have a deep feminine side to me that I desire to explore. I am perfectly content being a guy and I am very attracted to women even though I am very curious what it would be like being with a guy. Again, the male thing would be purely sexual. Is this bad to feel this way? I've read a couple forums and such and I seem to be the only person who feels this way I think.
When I'm with a woman I am very relationship oriented. Although sex is very enjoyable it is not my primary goal for a relationship nor do I strive for it right away. I really enjoy taking our time and watching the relationship develop. However, I definately have a very strong sexual drive and once I put on lingerie it's game over. My sexuality peaks to the max.
I just would like to know what people think about this. Is this considered ok amongst the crossdressing community? Also if anyone feels like emailing me then that would be great. email@example.com
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stephygurl added a topic in Male to Female (MtF) Crossdressers Discussionall my sistershey girls
im new here and i just wanted to say im only 18 but i LOVE to wear my moms clothng,panties dreses skirts everythin,i just love the way being a woman feels.
well respond to this message if you want
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