while I am bi, I find that I perfer men for dating and for sex. I've discovered that I'm passive ( okay submissive ) in dating situations with males, however with females it is more fifty fifty, which isn't as satasfiying for me
I can think of one gal lately who is constantly inviting private chat about "frilly things" but she is not alone. If I had a nickel for every time I've seen "I'm wearing panties and I feel SO horney" I'd have a jar full of 'em. This statement gets me, only because even if I WAS in such a condition I wouldn't be broadcasting it.
There was a HUGE part of my life, the majority of it really, when testosterone and clothing combined quite powerfully for me. It was a very private matter, always. But you cannot gauge by me, I know. I'm really a horse of a different color.
I know there are things I enjoy talking about that most folks would say, "Geez, that's boring."
OK, as one puzzled by it, can anyone tell me WHY clothing chat is so engaging for you? Trying to understand....
Maybe it's because I'm transsexual and not CD that keeps me from seeing what the thrill of wearing lacy pink panties is. Maybe it's the testosterone that CD's have that I don't. Oh, well. What ever floats your boat, I guess.
:blink: I am a fit 40 year old male 6ft tall and 160 lbs. I am strictly hetero. I find the female body fascinating. I have considered sex with men and even done it. Although enjoyable at the time, I have satisfied my interest with that. I do however, love the feel of women’s clothes against my body especially panties, stockings and body suits. My only fantasy in life that I have not fulfilled is meeting an attractive, intelligent, and independent woman to accept me for who I am regardless of what I wear even if that was something from her closet. If that were to happen, I’d probably quit playing the lottery because I’d have every thing I wanted.
On average, I spend 7 hours a night in chat. Each and every night the subject of "what are you wearing" comes up once or twice. The query most often comes from a gal who identifies as CD. It is at those times that I leave the chatroom to work on other things.
I'm not knocking this choice of topic; it just is irrelevant to me. We all have our areas of interest, yes? (smile)
I've spent many hours chatting with TG's and GG's and I don't recall the subject of what kind of underwear I was wearing ever came up. It's just something that ladies don't talk about or feel the desire to do so.
I can't say that I've ever really been attracted to men but I have to admit there are some that I find attractive. That cute little Johnny Damon (The guy with all the hair) of the Boston Red Sox might cause me to change my mind. Having said that, I must say that I am totally devoted to my SO of many many years. I'd have to say that I'm a lesbian.
Gee thanks Annie I always wondered what ASL meant. By the way I am wearing a pink sleeveless top with plunging neck line and black and white skirt with the hem cut from mid calf to above the knee. Underneath well lets say I prefer a little bit of sexy lingerie than plan jane cotton knickers and a bra.
For me, in my experience. I have met some men who only ever wanted to see Jamie. the guy I have been seeing now lately accepts her and her counterpart and treats me the same either way, although I much prefer him to be with Jamie as often as possible. Lately I have been actively seeking someone who accepts both my sides. Sometimes I have found this to be hard. Either a man wants you only as a man or only as a girl and for me, I enjoy both sides so I need a man who accepts both. I really was interested in how others like me deal with that when it comes to the dating scene.