I would advise you to just take it as fast or slowly as you are comfortable with, don't push yourself down a road that you're not totally happy with.

Hugs

Caroline x

Thank you for the advice...a lot of my stress has to do with I visited my Mom and Stepdad over Thanksgiving and didn't have the courage to tell them that I've been in gender therapy for the past 18 months and also contemplating the beginning steps of transition if not already even in the initial steps...thanks again sincerely, Karen