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"True Selves"

Chrissy

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Hi all,

I heard about this book in several blogs and/or forums last week as I was catching up, and I immediately purchased it. I've gotten about a quarter of the way through it (I picked up the pace considerably when I decided to read it during my commute, which is when I do most of my reading).

I just finished the section on childhood years and it's already had a substantial impact on my thinking. In terms of being transsexual I would probably say that I'm not, but as I read more I become less and less convinced of that. I'd still say probably not, but the book is definitely making me think more. There were just so many examples they discuss of how children respond to being transgender that resonated with me (if it had just been a couple it might have been coincidence, but it was more).

So to anyone and everyone who mentioned the book - thank you!

xoxo

Christie

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LovelyLisa

The book basically confirmed for me that I needed to transition. Those sections that you mentioned were the deciding factor for me.

I am glad it helped you as well. Always remember that this is your life and your journey. The decision to start transition, for me, really was and has been a "last option". If you do decide to do anything, think about what you want and need and don't let others pressure you in anything. This is about you and your needs. Not some standard or strict definition of gender.

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Chrissy

Lisa,

I'm definitely taking a "one step at a time" approach - although earlier I was in more of a "I want an answer now!" state of mind. Now I'm just challenging myself to take the next step and see how it feels, and see if it makes me want to take another step after that. At some point I'll reach a place where I'm comfortable and don't need or want to take another step - who knows where that will be though!

xoxo

Christie

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