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Putting my hair in Nikki's hands.


Briannah

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Waiting for my hair to dry out, and then I'm putting the one thing about my physical form I feel good about into...Nikki's hands.  He's going to first bleach it, then dye it deep emerald green.  I'm finally going to have my dream hair, my favorite color, green.  I've been trying to do my part to help find the balance between Nikki's two sides, and have invited him as far into the girl world as I go, which isn't far really, when someone online is judging me purely on behaviors and interests they usually assume I'm male until it comes up and I realize it and say um...nope, sorry.  I guess I'm horrible at being girly, so I just go for being me and not giving a crap.  But sometimes I wonder if my lack of girlness is not helping right now.  But anyway, my hair.  So instead of going off on my own or calling one of my girlfriends I put the stuff in Nikki's hands and said let's do this.  I think he's kinda excited about that, and mentioned that he'd like me to do his (he's eyeing this lovely black shade with deep shimmery sapphire highlights we saw when I was picking up a processing cap for the bleaching).  I'm super excited!  I think it'll look great on him.

I"m extremely nervous as despite all the color play I've done with my hair, I have never bleached it before.  I always just went with the subtler shades if I was lightening it (often used a blond dye in the winter to get my dark hair to something close to its summer red) or hennas.  Fairly gentle to the hair itself.  If my hair wasn't so dark I wouldn't do it, but it's really dark and gets darker with age and I'd like more than the really really subtle color it would have if i didn't bleach it. 

So wish me luck!  And, hopefully, Nikki will have a blast.  Or at least not blind me with bleach in my eyes. :)

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Hiya Briannah. You and Nikki WILL Both look Great, I Am sure. Briannah, I have been growing My hair long, for 2 Year's now. ( At the beginning of September, 2014 ; I had a Grade 2, all over. ).  Since then, My Hair has been getting Washed and Blow-Dried, and Combed-through, and in the last 16 Month's, it is left loose, or the front held out of My Face, using clip's, or My Hair gets put in a Pony-Tail.  I absolutely adore having long hair, and putting a Pretty-Pink scrunchie in My Hair. Combining having My hair in a Pony-Tail, with wearing Make-Up, helps Me to feel more Feminine, especially when wearing a Pretty Dress !!   Briannah,  let Us Know how Your Hair, and Nikki's Hair goes. Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Big Hugs, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx 

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Right now I'm scary blond.  :)   Here's what it looks like all bleached out and waiting to finish drying so that we can put the green on it.  I haven't been this color since I got married the first time, when I was 19, and it was an accident.  It does NOT do wonder for my skin tone and I"m glad it's not the finished product!  I think Nikki did a good job for his first time ever bleaching out hiar.  :)   Keep in mind it was REALLY dark black to begin with.  I like the accidental ombre shading from the light top to the darker ends too, I think that's going to look wonderful in the finished look.  And he managed to control the goopy bleach (It was bright blue, that was so weird, BLUE BLEACH!) and

keep it outta my eyes and other places it doesn't belong!  blond_zpssm9gfgye.jpg

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Hiya Briannah. Your Hair, is Lovely. It Would be so Nice, to see Your Lovely Face though. Briannah, If You would like to see a Photograph of Me, taken Last Friday. Go to www.pinkpunters.com           Then Press Menu; Then Press Galleries; Then Press Photo Gallery; Then Press Friday, 16th. September, 2016. Then move the Photograph's, 78 times, to The Left. I Am wearing a Maroon-Red Flowery Dress; Black Patent-Leather Ballerina Shoes; White-PearlNecklace; White-Pearl Ankle-Bracelet'sAnkle-Bracelet's; Red Lipstick; Dark-Brown-Hair. Pink Punters, is the Lesbian/Gay/Bi-Sexual/Transgender/Nightclub, at Fenny Stratford, near Milton Keynes, in Buckinghamshire, in England, in The United Kingdom. I have been going there, for over a Year now, on and off, on Friday Night's. I stay at The Campanile Hotel, which is 3 minutes Walk, across the road, from Pink Punters. Briannah, I hope that You and Nikki have done Okay with Your Hair. Briannah, Take Care Honey, And My Very Best Wishes to You and Nikki, Big Hugs, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx 

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I am trying to send you a natural hair and scary blond with face photo in the private messages, but my photobucket account is being difficult and not attaching the photos properly.  X_X  I swear computers live to annoy me prior to 2pm.  They just never work right becuas ethey KNOW I'm not a morning person and it's a good time to get me.  LOL  Or it could be that I"m half awake and confused. 

Okay, I lost count three times but I found it!  That's a nice dress!  And it looks like a fun party, I wish we had something like that in our area, but the closets there is is 2 to 3 hours away.  But it would be fun to have a place like that for date nights with Nikki's girl side! 

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I had to pick a different picture, for whatever reason it wouldn't attach the one of me and my cat, but I found one where my hair isn't doing a squid impression with Nikki in it as a bonus. :)

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Hiya Bree. The Bar where My Photograph was taken, is The Attic Bar, which also has a chill-out area, and also a Pink-Room, where You can do Your Make-Up, Re-Style Your Hair, and so many People use The Pink-Room, for taking selfie's. L.O.L.  Your Photo's in the P.M. area Bree, are Lovely. You two ARE such a Lovely Couple. I bet You'll Both have fun, with the hair-dyeing again. For Nikki's first time of Bleaching Your Hair, Wow !  He has done a Superb Job. Nikki - Well Done ! Bree and Nikki, You are Very-Well-Loved here at TGGuide, Both of You. You have Both come such a long way, since You first joined, and You have supported so many other's already. Good on You, and Thank You Very Much. Bree and Nikki, I Know that You have Both, got Great Senses of Humour as well. Take Care, Keep Smiling, Big Hugs, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx 

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Thank you very much.  :)  We often get mistaken for siblings for some reason.  I once made a girl I worked with cry when she asked me for 'my brothers' phone number so she could hit on him!   The manager's face was priceless when she said that, and manager was laughing SO hard when I told her she didn't stand a chance with MY husband.  Nikki has always been super faithful and very attached to me, that is one thing I can absolutely count on. : )

Sometimes we're hilarious, sometimes only we get the joke and everyone else is looking at us funny!  :)

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Dear Briannah,

Absolutely love your blond hair!

Personally, I put my hair in my sister in law's (I prefer to call her my sister, as I'm not into this "in law" thing) and she not only chooses my hair but my clothes.

If left up to me, I would be a mess!

This is one of the reasons I need a wife!

Your friend,

Monica

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