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Cat Fight?


Cyrsti

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Unless you live in a cave, or with me in a box under a bridge-you probably haven't missed the transgender news in several areas.

Transgender youth are making headlines as homecoming queens or kings in their chosen gender. The latest story comes out of Texas where transgender student "Andy Moreno" was nominated for homecoming queen by friends.

When the school principal said no-Moreno protested. Rightfully so!

Transgender political candidates are stepping onto the political stage. One of the races in Oklahoma, pitts transgender candidate "Brittany Novotny" against an ultra conservative opponent.

Being a resident of the Midwest, all of this has not been lost on me. This activity is NOT taking place in NYC or San Fransisco. All of this news represents a true "Gender Quake" in middle America-in society.

As a public transgender person the "Quake" helps me tremendously. Finally transgender folk have better public roles models other than "Jerry Springer" and slasher movies. People have an easier time seeing me as a real person.

Of course, in the midst of all of this you have in fighting in our own transgender group. A genetic female friend of my mine sent me to Calpernia Adams website and was confused by the lengthy negative discussion of our own.

http://www.calpernia.com/

Basically the argument boils down to a cat fight between girls who have lived more life as girls to those who haven't and should any of us "cuddle up" to the male gay movement. Unfortunately, I was involved in nearly the same discussion in an on-line transgender site. It was prolonged and ugly as me without.makeup.

It seems the more life improves for us in the public-the worse it gets with our own? Shame on us!

Some of this proves again "You can put the girl in a man-but you can't take the man out of the girl." I'm sure Andy Moreno could speak to the fact that being a girl is so much more than looking like one. Sure you can spend thousands to change your body to beautiful, but you can't spend any money to improve your soul!

Or all we bringing out the worst in women as former men?

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Dear Cyrsti,

I don’t think that we become worse females than we was as males previously. Inner conflicts are natural in every group. Conflicts between women are often more wicked and treasonous than between men. :)

We can’t dismiss our male mentality completely, of course but there’s one important thing to remember: every person has both masculine and feminine traits both physically and psychically. Even the most feminine genetic woman has thoughts of a male and act like a male in some situations and vice versa.

We can improve our mentality, or soul. I discover new aspects of my life week by week that wasn’t recognized when I was totally male. I really enjoy every such happening, they widen my breadth of view, improve my feminine part inside me slowly.

There’s much hope for all of us!

Hugs,

Sophie

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