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Sheela

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About Sheela

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  • Gender
    Female
  • Location
    Ontario, Canada
  • Interests
    metaphysics, reading, obscure history
  1. Sheela

    Out to the Matriarch

    Last weekend, my spouse went to a city about 3 hours away from where we live, to break the story of my transition to her mother. Her mum is 90 plus years old. We had delayed the announcement for several moths since the poor lady is so old that she may have perished before the announcement became necessary. My spouse, lovingly, calls her every Sunday to speak with her and cheer her up. It was getting a bit old referring to me in my former gender. After facial feminization surgery, there's no going back. That was in January. My spouse's visit went very well. Her sister, who is a big supporter of mine was there with her, and helped their mum to "get it". And the ancient lady did get it, and in a kind and loving way. She was the last relative to get the message, and I'm so glad that that has been done. I consider that fortune has blessed me greatly. I still have the same job. The relatives that cared for me before transition - still love me. and I am with a person who chose me years ago, and has chosen me again. If you are entering transition, know that you must be prepared to lose everything, but you may be surprised - let love be your guide and remember that it will be more difficult for your loved ones to understand where you are going that it is for you. I know that I never found a reason or justification for being transsexual. I just know that it is something that I must do, or die. Retain and enhance your fine qualities, and your will be valued. Life may be kinder than you expect.
  2. Welcome :)

    1. Sheela

      Sheela

      Thanks Lori. I have been looking for a place on the Internet to find friends who are transitioning. I live in a basically rural area and there isn't anyone near that I can relate to. I was a participant at Pink Essence.com for a few months, but left when the site owner made the posts public, i believed to increase the membership and earn more income from advertising. I'm not interested in making my pre-transition life public knowledge since that would make my life problematic in the s...

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