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Steph53

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  1. Steph53

    What Is It...

    Hiya Emma. When I "Came-Out" as a Fully; Full-Time; Male-to-Female; Transitioning; Transsexual; over 15 1/2 Month's ago, a Few People asked Me, if Wearing Female Undies; Clothing; Footwear; and Nightwear; made Me feel Erotic; and/or Sexy ? The answer was, No ! Wearing Female Attire, just feels so Right. If I Am Not Wearing Dresses, then I Am Wearing Top's/Blouses and Skirt's, and Vica Versa. But it is just something, that to Me, comes Naturally. I use Female Washroom's/Bathroom's, ( and being Officially Registered Disabled, I can also use Disabled Facilities, if Female one's are Not available. ). Emma, Never think to Yourself, I should Not be Wearing a Nightie; etc., because if it feels right, then it is right. What I can say, is that Female Undies; Clothing; Footwear; and Nightwear; ARE so much nicer, and so much more comfortable, to wear. I enjoy colour coordinating as well, but sometimes it can also be fun, to wear something which clashes. I Love Wearing Make-Up, as well. Emma, enjoy Wearing what feels right to You Young Lady. If anyone says anything different, ignore Them. Emma, Take Care, Big Hugs; And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx
  2. Hiya Michele. I Have been thinking of You, All Day Today Young Lady. I hope that the Operation Has Been a Success, and I Also Hope, that the Result is NOT bad news. Michele, Take Care Young Lady, And My Very Best Wishes Honey. Big Hugs, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx
  3. Hiya Michele. Darling Girl, My Very Sincere Good Wishes, for Tuesday Honey. I Am Keeping Everything Crossed for You. You Know that I WILL Be thinking of You on Tuesday. It Will be Good to get the Operation Done though Young Lady. Michele, Your Kind and Lovely Word's to Everyone, are So Sweet, and So Kind. Michele Sweetheart, Have A Good Weekend Young Lady. Good Luck; Take Care; Big Hugs; And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx
  4. Hiya Michele. How Are You Young Lady ? Okay, I Hope Sweetheart ! Michele, how has the Policing for the Election's gone ? Very Busy, I suspect is too much of an Understatement !! Michele, More Importantly, How is Your Health News ? Have You had Any Diagnosis yet ? Sweetheart, I Know that waiting is Horrid ! I have been there Myself ! A few year's ago, I had a lump removed from the top of My back. It was Originally thought that it was Cancer. Fortunately, it was Benign. The waiting for News, was Awful. So Michele, I therefore feel for You Honey. You Know that I Am routeing for You, and keeping Everything Crossed, that the News is Good News; Not Vica-Versa ! Michele, Please stay in touch. Good Luck; Take Care; Big Hugs; And My Very Best Wishes; Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx
  5. Hiya Jay; Emma; Michael; and Monica. Back at the Beginning of September, 2014, My Hair, was a Grade 2, Allover. I have let it grow ever since. It Is Now Halfway down My shoulder-blades; and still growing. I have Not been into a Female-Hair-Salon, as a Customer. I wash My Hair with Head And Shoulders 2-in-1; Shampoo and Conditioner; and apart from Brushing and Combing right through a couple of times a day, and drying it with a Hair-Dryer, nothing else really gets done with it, apart from putting it into a Pony-Tail ! One day I'll use a salon, but, I don't know when that will be. Take Care My Friend's, Big Hugs, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx
  6. Hiya Michael. If other People cannot accept You for You, then Young Man, They are the One's who have got the Problem's. Being MtoF Myself, if other People cannot accept Me, that is Their Problem. I Am Fully; Full-Time; Female Living; and Dressing; as I have been Now, for over 15 Month's. Michael, as long as You are comfortable as Yourself Young Man, that is what matters ! Michael, Be Happy Young Man, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Big Hugs, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx
  7. Steph53

    >100 Miles!

    Hiya " Sweet " Emma Sweet. Honey, Congratulations on Your Cycle of over 100 Miles. Because of Osteo-Arthritis, I Am no longer able to cycle, or walk for any type of distance. But, when A Friend, such as You Emma, achieves a Great Distance like over 100 Miles, It makes Me feel Very Proud of You. Emma, Well Done. Now, You need to rest a bit. Emma, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Big Hugs, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx
  8. Hiya Michele. You Young Lady, are Definitely NOT UGLY. You are a Very Beautiful; Pretty; Young Lady, and You are Definitely Cute ! You are far more Lovely than Me ! Mind You, I Am getting Old !! Michele, I understand Your concern's over Chemotherapy, I have had So Many Friend's, and Relatives who have gone through it. I Did Not Know, that You have gone through Cancer before. Young Lady, You I Know, are very independent, and I Am very similar in that sense. I Am very independent, and used to doing thing's for Myself. I do Not make for being a very patient Patient !! L.O.L. Michele, I Sincerely hope, that You have NOT got cancer. However, You Know, that I Am routeing for You Honey. Michele, having Your Mother visiting, and Not wanting to tell Her - Very Hard ! Michele, Good Luck, Take Care Sweetheart, Big Hugs, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx
  9. Hiya Michele. I Am Sorry My Darling, that You have found a lump, where a lump Did Not ought to be. Because there is Cancer in My Own Family, ( Big-Time ), if I find a lump, it has to be checked out by the Doctor's immediately. Michele, I Am going to make a suggestion. How about measuring the size of the lump, writing it down in a notepad, then, maybe 3 Day's later, re-checking the size, to see if it has altered, but, still making a note, and doing this, until You are able to get it Properly checked-out. Sweetheart, It Is Only Natural, that You are going to be Worried, and Apprehensive. You Would Not bebHuman, and Female to go with It, so You are bound to Worry. Michele Honey, We Know that You are a Very Hard Worker, but, Please get it Checked-Out, WHEN You Can. If You Need to Talk, or Anything Else, You Know Where I Am. I Know You have got Your Mother staying with You as well, and that Can be Stressful, when You are So Busy At Work, and then having the Lump as well. Michele, Good Luck Sweetheart. Take Care Honey, Because I Care !! And My Very Best Wishes Michele, to You, and Your Family. Big Hugs, and Love, Stephanie. xxxxxxxx
  10. Hiya Lisa. Darling Girl, I Am so Pleased to hear Your News. Good on You, Young Lady. Lisa, I Am literally a few day's short of A Year-And-A-Quarter, being MtoF Fully; Full-Time. I Know the Awesome Feeling, that You ARE going through. Sweetheart, it is a truly Wonderful Thing, that You have got the Support at Work as well. Lisa, I Am So Proud of You, Young Lady. Please Know, that I Am here, if You wish to talk, or if You need Any support. Lisa, You said that You and Your Wife, are Not staying together. Well Darling, My Own Marriage is over, and We are Only still under the Same-Roof, ( At The Moment ), because of Our 3 Special-Needs-Children. But, She has been cheating on Me, for nearly 2 Year's, with Other Women; and Other Men !! Lisa, a lot of Marriages end due to Transitioning, but Lisa, be like Me, Keep Smiling, Keep Thinking Positive, and just think Honey, You WILL BE the Beautiful Butterfly on The Outside, that You Already ARE, on The Inside. Lisa, Good Luck Sweetheart, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Big Hug's and Cuddle's, Love Stephanie. xxxx
  11. Steph53

    Sparkle

    Hiya Jay. How Are You ? Okay, I Hope ! Jay, There were an Awful Lot, of L.G.B.T. People, Who visited Manchester, for Sparkle. I was at Pink Punters, in Fenny Stratford, in Buckinghamshire, on Friday Night, as usual. I Am Very Glad that You and Your Husband, were able to enjoy Sparkle Young Man. Brighton Pride I understand is the Next L.G.B.T. event of Any Size. There is also the Herts Pride event, on the first Saturday in September, in Gadebridge Park, in Hemel Hempstead, in Hertfordshire. That I Hope to go to. Jay, Speak Soon Young Man. To You and Your Husband, My Very Best Wishes, And Take Care, Love Stephanie. xxxx
  12. Hiya Beautiful; Pretty Michele. Thank You for You Message Young Lady. ( I Am Glad that You liked the comment :- " So-and-So " !! I thought I would Keep Our Conversation's on TGGuide ",Clean " !! L.O.L. !! I have Got a Real Bucket-Mouth, But, I Can Also Be Cleanly Spoken ! Michele, that So-Called " Boss ", He Should Be " Demoted " I Am an Ex-Union Shop-Steward; and therefore, I Do NOT take Any rot, and I Do NOT Enjoy seeing My Friend's, like Yourself, taking any Rot. Michele Darling Girl, Hit that Cretin, Right Where It Hurts Him the most - In His Wallet. I suggest that You ask the Female Boss, to have Him demoted. Here's a nice job for Him, Make Him sweep the Main Road's, during the Peak Time's, in the Wrong Direction, with a worn-out Toothbrush. When He does Not do the job Properly, make Him repeat it, until He gets Fed-Up, and Leaves !! I Am a Devious Bitch, aren't I ? Michele You Gorgeous Young Lady, Do NOT take any Rot. You Darling Girl are Far Better Than That. Sweetheart, You Know that I Am here for You. Look After Yourself, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx
  13. Hiya Michele. Firstly My Darling Girl, You are no Pest !! You have Every Right to Your Personal, and Confidential Information being just that. Michele, You hit Him where it hurts - in His Wallet !! I Am Not going to Use Profane, or Insulting Language to describe Him. This Is out of sheer Love and Respect for You, and All Our Friend's on TGGuide. ( I Will Not lower Myself to His Gutter Standard's !! ). Michele, Don't let the So-and-So get You down. He Is an ignorant Good-for-Nothing. Michele, You on the other hand, are a Very Wonderful, and Very Decent Young Lady. Michele, wallop Him in the wallet, and You have the Last LaughLaugh !! Michele, Speak Soon Honey, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx
  14. Hiya Michele. You are Quite an inspiration to a lot of Us. The thing is, that You are Michele, the Lovely Young Lady, Who We have seen Maturing in front of Us. I Applaud You Michele, and I wish You nothing but All Good Wishes. Michele, I respect You, for the job that You do as well. Michele, You are a Brilliant Young Lady. Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx
  15. Hiya Chrissy. Us " Trans Women " ARE " Real Women ", and Your T-Shirt, IT IS Something that I Hope that You Will feel Very Proud to Wear. Chrissy, I Am Very Proud of You, for marching in the new York Pride. ( I Had Hoped to go to London Pride, but, sadly My Wife decided to go away Today, and I had to stay at Home, with Our Children. There Will Be other year's ! ). At London Pride, the U.K.'s International Development Secretary - Ms. Justine Greening, announced at London Pride - Today, that She Is In a Same-Sex-Relationship. Wow ! What a Time and Place to make an announcement like that ! Good Luck to Justine and Her Partner. Chrissy, like Yourself, I have Always Wished, that I had been born a Cisgender Female. Still, Never Mind Chrissy. We are Both on Our Way, to Physically be the Female's that We Have always been inside. ( Chrissy, You are Both Very Pretty, and very Beautiful. You are also well on the way, to being who You Really are. Good Luck to You Sweetheart. I Mean That - Sincerely ! I Am Very Proud, that You are one of My Friend's, here on TGGuide. ). Chrissy, I hope that You Enjoy Pride. Have an absolutely Fantastic Day. I Really Look Forward to seeing Your Photo's. Chrissy, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx
  16. Hiya Michele; Veronica; Chrissy; and Emma. Emma, what a Great Description. You are so right, about We can " Be rightfully proud of ourselves. " We All have a Massive Amount to be Proud Of. Have a Good Day, and a Great Weekend ahead. Take Care Michele; Veronica; Chrissy; and Emma. With My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx
  17. Steph53

    Bottom Surgery!!!

    Hiya Chrissy. Your News is Brilliant, Honey. I Am So Pleased for You, and You Must Be So Pleased and Happy. You Can Be Very Proud Of Yourself. Chrissy, You Will Finally Be The Real Woman You Are ! Congratulations Young Lady. You Are A Lucky Girl. Chrissy, Well Done, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx
  18. Hiya Michele. One of My Own Friend's was born inter-sexed. She was brought up as a Male, but, in Adult-hood, has had Surgery, and Lives as She always wanted, and that is as a Female. She was lucky, she was able to choose Her Own Gender. My Friend Is Very Attractive. I meet up with My Friend, and Her Boyfriend, regularly. Michele, You are also Very Beautiful, and Very Pretty. Michele, You are You, and You Deserve to be Happy. Take Good Care of Yourself, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx
  19. Steph53

    Woohoo

    Hiya Jay. Congratulations Young Man. I Am so Pleased and Happy for You. Well Done. Go and have a Cup of Tea or Coffee to Celebrate. ( Or Something stronger if You wish. ). I hope All goes well. By the way, who cares how to spell " Woohoo " !,Just shout it out from the Hill-Top's, instead ! Jay, Good Luck Young Man, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx
  20. Hiya Michele. Darling Girl, I Am so Sorry for Your Loss. Of Your Dear Friend Mthetho. Michele, You are such a Lovely; Loving; Kind; Caring; Considerate; and Sweet Young Lady. To have Lost someone You are so Close to is Very Sad. Michele, there is no harm, in weeping over Someone Special. It just shows the Very Special Bond, between You. Michele, Thinking Of You, Take Care, Love Stephanie. xxxx
  21. Hiya Chrissy. It Is so Good to hear from You. Well You have got a lot to look forward to. Good Luck for Your Appointment on Monday, about Your Bottom- Surgery, and Good Luck for Your Appointment in Mid-July, about Your Top -Surgery. The fact that You are having Your Top-Surgery on 19th. August, Must be Very Exciting. Seeing out time in a job, I Know is Very Boring. Good Luck for the NYU. Chrissy, You Should Be Very Proud of How Well, You Have Already Done, and How Far You Have Already Come. Look Back, at where You were, when You started that job, to where You are Now ! Chrissy, Well Done Honey. Stay In Touch with Us, and Let Us All Know, How thing's go. Speak Soon, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx
  22. Hiya Briannah, and Emma. I agree with Both ofYou Ladies. It Is Never right to cheat. I have Never, Ever, Cheated; on any Relationship. However, My Wife has been cheating on Me, for over 21 Month's, with Other Men, and Other Women. She Is Bisexual; but only " Came-Out " to Me about it in the last 5 Year's; long after We first got together - which is over 20 Year's; and long after We got Married - which is a few week's short of 18 Year's. Yet, when I first " Came-Out " as Transsexual; to Her, on 30th. April, 2015; then I started buying Female-Clothing; Undies; Nightwear; Shoes; etc., and Wearing them; and Fully; Full-Time; Female-Living; on 1st. May, 2015; She said that I should have told Her, before We got Married. Although She says that She did Not need to tell Me, before We got Married. Our Physical Relationship, has been over, for 14 Month's anyway. However, She has been metering-out Domestic Violence to Me, for Well Over 8 Year's, and I have got the Physical Scar's to Prove it. She and Our Middle-Son; were " Trapping " Me, between the Front-Door; and the Front-Door-Frame; 22 1/2 Day's ago. A Neighbour Phoned the Police. This is the 4 th. time, in a very few Month's, that Neighbour's have called the Police, because, I have been getting Gender-Domestic-Abuse; from Her, against Me. I Am now Officially Registered; with Our Local Women's Aid Charity, as a Domestic-Violence Victim ! ( I Am only under the Same-Roof, because We have got 3 Special-Need's-Children ! But, I now want out of here, which I Am now trying to organise. Briannah, You My Darling Friend, should think of the 3 Most-Importamt People - Yourself; Nikki; and Your Son. Forget Your Cheating Father. He was only ever interested in Himself, and Not You. Briannah, Speak Soon, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes; to You - Bree; and to Nikki; and to Your Son; Love Stephanie. xxxx Emma, Speak Soon, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes; to You - Emma, and to Your Wife; Love Stephanie. xxxx
  23. Steph53

    Warned

    Hiya Michele. Sweetheart, You have My Complete Admiration, and Respect, for The Job that You do, and the way in which You do it. Michele, the fact that You are a Rape Survivor, Must be a Very Hard thing to get over. Rape is Rape is Rape ; as far as I Am concerned. You Are a Wonderful Young Lady. But, You I Know, Realise, that the Reason that We ALL tell You to Take Care, is because We care about You. Besides, You are one of Our Friend's, and We Do Not want anything untoward, to happen to You. By the Way, Your Photograph's, as usual, are Fantastic, Young Lady. How is everyone else in Your household doing ? Okay, I hope ! Michele, Look after Yourself, and Speak Soon. Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx
  24. Hiya Karen. It Is so Good to see You here. How Are You Young Lady ? Okay, I Hope ! Karen, firstly, Congratulations on Your Voice. Secondly, Your Looks ! Karen Payne, You are one of the Most Beautiful and Pretty Young Ladies. You are Stunning, and Gorgeous ! Karen, Anyone meeting You, especially for the first time, ARE going to look at You, as if You are a Natural-Born-Female. Karen, I have been Female-Living for just over a Year now, and a lot of My Female Friend's, have told Me, that I can now " Pass " well. But, I Am nowhere near as Lovely as You are Honey. Karen, As for Your advice on Voice-Training, I Am getting Fairly Good, especially when out in Public, but, back with My Children, and Er-Indoors, Well !! I Can tell You sometime else about that ! As for You, meeting-up with Your Friend's, who thought that You are a Cis-gender Female, It just goes to Prove, what a Pretty and Beautiful Young Lady You Are ! I have seen so many of Your Photograph's on TGGuide, that back-up that remark as well. By the way, How is Your " Sister ", who We have seen You with ? I hope She is Okay too ! Are You still going out on Your car journey's on Saturday's ? Karen, Speak Soon, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx
  25. Steph53

    Update ...

    Hiya Lisa Darling. I feel for You Sweetheart. Darling Girl, You are Not the only one to Cry. I was Physically Attacked by My Wife, and My Middle Son, 2 Week's ago, Today. ( They tried to crush Me between The Front-Door; and The Front-Door-Frame. The Police were called by a Neighbour ! ). I cried when I was talking to the Police. ( This is the 4th. time that the Police have been called, because I have been under attack ). Lisa, to be Rejected, is Not nice. Lisa, You are so Lovely, Young Lady, and being Transsexual Myself, I have found that It Is harder to withstand rejection. I Am lucky though, I have made a lot of Friend's, since " Coming-Out ", as Transsexual, and All the New Friend's that I have made, are sticking by me. Lisa, You Young Lady,are Very Popular, here at TGGuide, and You have made a lot of Friend's here. Lisa, Keep Your Chin-Up, and Your Pretty Head held high. ( If that Person has rejected You, He is obviously Not worth Knowing. You are worth so much more than Him !! ). Lisa, I will Not ever judge You, but, I Am here for You, if You need Me. ( If You ever want to chat Honey, then Please Private Message Me, Young Lady ). Lisa, Speak Soon, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxx
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