Takingbackashlee, on 23 November 2009 - 02:13 PM, said:
I doubt it was intentional sieggy, but I see it done too much in the glbt community. Cisgendered, straight individuals, Im willing to bet, do not like being referred to as breeders.' I can understand the anger many in the community have, but thats the whole problem with the glbt community. That's just as bad As me calling gays and lesbians 'fags and bulldykes' or calling trans women 'tranny' or 'shemales.'
Again, Im betting you meant no offense by it, but all of my closest friends, and my family are 'breeders.' I wouldn't ever dream of calling them something like that. Unity comes from finding common ground, not keeping score and kicking back.
No, their words, not mine. I was using what I had heard personally and read online from the organizers and marchers of various gay parades, functions, and venues. I've worked a few as staff as well as a vendor. In most cases, the people putting them on have to keep a tight rein on their more radical elements, and when the radical elements are the organizers, it can get . . . uuuummmm . . . interesting. There's a sense of bitterness and desire to lash out that permeates many activists (on all sides, mind you - it's part of the activist pathology), and the GLB community has its own bigots like any other group.
My feeling is that the TG community has been lumped with the GLB community on the basis of outward appearance, and the TG community is being adversely affected as a result. The fundamental bases of both camps are different; gays want to be free to do what they want with who they want, TGs want to be free to be who they are. Being gay implies outlook and activity; gender implies a state of being. If someone gay is celibate, society considers him/her straight. It's the gay sex act that makes them gay. A TG who is celibate is still TG. As long as sex as an activity is conflated with gender as a condition, acceptance is going to be an uphill battle.
It doesn't help that the perception of the public is colored by the fact that they can't tell a drag queen from a crossdresser from a transvestite from a transgendered, and have no idea that there's any difference. Toss in ill-informed and sensationalistic media coverage that stirs everything into a big stewpot of Tranny, and serves it up with a side of Gay Pride Parade, the message gets totally lost.
It's sort of like the blacks & the jews on the left . . . not much in common, really, don't like each other very much, but what the hell, politics makes for strange bedfellows. Being neither, I've heard some truly ripper jokes from each regarding the other . . .