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PlagueBubonic : (16 May 2012 - 11:22 PM) TTFN party is over ....again...But I'll be back LOL :lol: Now that a threat ;)
PlagueBubonic : (16 May 2012 - 11:13 PM) DITTO back at you! :P
Lori : (16 May 2012 - 11:12 PM) That's my hope. Have a great night. Sending you lots of (((hugs)))
PlagueBubonic : (16 May 2012 - 11:12 PM) Me TOO!! Love you Ms. Lori :wub: Peace Out
PlagueBubonic : (16 May 2012 - 11:11 PM) I really think this site helps a lot of new bees :D ...lets them know their not alone ;)
Lori : (16 May 2012 - 11:11 PM) Well I have to run along, glad I got to say hi to you Plague :wub:
Lori : (16 May 2012 - 11:11 PM) So that's why I'm glad you're volunteering, cause you can help somebody who desperately needs some support.
PlagueBubonic : (16 May 2012 - 11:10 PM) Yep your so right so many TG girls suffered a lone :unsure:
Lori : (16 May 2012 - 11:09 PM) I sometimes think how different things might have been for me, how much easier... if only there had been some resource available to help me out.
PlagueBubonic : (16 May 2012 - 11:09 PM) Come you know you were more than a help to me!!! :wub:
Lori : (16 May 2012 - 11:08 PM) No, blossoming! :lol:
Lori : (16 May 2012 - 11:08 PM) You know, back in the days that you and I both remember, there was no Internet and almost no resources for transgender folks.
PlagueBubonic : (16 May 2012 - 11:08 PM) Blossoming??? more like stink-up the joint... :lol:
Lori : (16 May 2012 - 11:07 PM) Glad we could be of some help :)
Lori : (16 May 2012 - 11:07 PM) Yes, a little help is all we need sometimes to change our outlook on life.
PlagueBubonic : (16 May 2012 - 11:07 PM) Thax Ms. Lori ...You know you had a hand in that too....right! ;)
PlagueBubonic : (16 May 2012 - 11:06 PM) It's Amazing!! how many things the center can help a TG Woman with!! ;)
Lori : (16 May 2012 - 11:06 PM) So glad you're blossoming
Lori : (16 May 2012 - 11:05 PM) Very cool, good for you! :)
PlagueBubonic : (16 May 2012 - 11:04 PM) Shut-up!! Girl you know I love you...RIGHT!! Silly! :lol:

Idea branched off from Trans-prom 2008


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So, I was going throught the centers site ( an lgbt center on like... west 13th stt in New york) and I found out there was a trans prom in 2008.

I don't think there's been one since has there?

Well, I wanted to start something called Trans-querade in New Jersey... Good idea? bad idea?

It'll be like a masquerade ball almost,
I get symbolic though... The masks symbolize the masks that we wore on the outside of our true selves.

I'd really like to get this together!
Feedback would be great!
I e-mailed Jersey shore pflag and the pride center of new jersey, My GSA friends and adviser said it'd be a bright idea for me to try to get some sponsors and if anyone lives in New Jersey and would like to help out, just Inbox me :)

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Hey, do it !!!!!!!!!! I help host an organazation Alternative Prom in Richmond Va known as the R. O. S. M. Y Prom. It's an affair open to all Youth 14-21. P-m me for details as it's been VERY sucessful.

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I wish my area had an alternative prom D:
If your trans they're still buttheads here and they make you sign a waiver stating your going to the prom with someone the same sex and you won't complain if you get bullied.
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"Well, I wanted to start something called Trans-querade in New Jersey... Good idea? bad idea?" -Vick
Sounds pretty cool...like it would be a lotta fun.

"...they make you sign a waiver stating your going to the prom with someone the same sex and you won't complain if you get bullied." -
Vick
So, uhhhh... are they saying bullying is okay... you just need to be aware that it could happen? And if you get stomped into the ground - oh, well...you were warned. ???? :huh:
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That's pretty much what the schools saying.
Which in a way, is illegal because of the HIB (Harassment, Intimidation and bullying) Laws.

But that's what one of my friends said,
He's trans too and he wanted to take a girl to prom.....
He had to signa waiver and he just ended up not going.
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Great idea, Vick. I'd do it.

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This makes me feel sick :P Sign this, sign that. WT??? You think schools would get thier act together by now. Sorry Vick P. That youall have to go throught that nonsense :blink: I Wish I could help in your prom, but I'm in California.
I think Ms. Gennee said it the best, "great idea, do it."
PS if I can help in someway on my end of the US, please let me know??
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Good idea Vick. See what Ellen has to offer from her experiences.

Signing a waiver of responsibility is ridiculous. You may as well have a waiver to sign for not being fashionable enough or looking like a geek or whatever any bully can think of for bullying.

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Vick, the "Theme " of last years R. O. S. M. Y prom was "Carnavale " yes , we had an antique Pop corn machine , masks , lots of ribbons and Mardi Gras type stuff. I'm going to suggest you contact Beth Panellas here in Richmond Virginia at Richmond Organnazation ofsexual Youth and disscuss a Prom even up in New Jersey. She can be reached at ROSMY.org

I also have a local phone , but you need to P- M me on it ........... ellen





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