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veronicabeta : (05 May 2015 - 10:45 PM) Pakiramdam groovy
veronicabeta : (05 May 2015 - 10:45 PM) Hi KILO! I am doing just that! So is Violet!
kasandra : (05 May 2015 - 09:35 PM) keep up the good work V! :))
veronicabeta : (05 May 2015 - 06:26 PM) 72+ Hours, no smokes. Not even a twitch to want one! Same for Violet. WoOT! :)
veronicabeta : (05 May 2015 - 06:25 PM) Hi Geenee ! :)
Gennee : (05 May 2015 - 06:15 PM) Hi everybody.
UsernameOpti... : (05 May 2015 - 02:09 PM) Bummer... hope you can get it replaced
WarrenG : (05 May 2015 - 01:06 PM) Guys no panic, but I'll be gone a while. My computer fan died and it gets too hot to even run for 10 minutes. So....bye...for a while....
veronicabeta : (05 May 2015 - 11:15 AM) Greetings & Hallucinations Viking Guy ! :)
veronicabeta : (05 May 2015 - 02:36 AM) UGH! Galleries! Time for remedial typing class!
veronicabeta : (05 May 2015 - 02:36 AM) It's cool Lori. Figured it out. Was just compressing my galeeris into one gallery and it was messing with me. all fab now!
veronicabeta : (05 May 2015 - 01:48 AM) Hi Lori. Where you doing any site maintenance this morning?
veronicabeta : (05 May 2015 - 01:37 AM) HI
kasandra : (05 May 2015 - 01:36 AM) Hi! :)
veronicabeta : (05 May 2015 - 12:47 AM) Hi Kasandra ! :)
veronicabeta : (04 May 2015 - 09:13 PM) TY Lori! :) I have some AWSOME support! :)
Lori : (04 May 2015 - 09:03 PM) Way to go Veronica! :D
veronicabeta : (04 May 2015 - 06:49 PM) 48 Plus hours, NO SMOKING, and I haven't even had an urge to pick up a cigarette. TY Kasandra for being my wingman on this attempt to quit. YOU ROCK!
Gennee : (04 May 2015 - 06:28 PM) Good evening, ViBetaSCOT.   :)
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Out to the Matriarch

Posted by Sheela , 29 July 2012 · 408 views

Last weekend, my spouse went to a city about 3 hours away from where we live, to break the story of my transition to her mother. Her mum is 90 plus years old. We had delayed the announcement for several moths since the poor lady is so old that she may have perished before the announcement became necessary.
My spouse, lovingly, calls her every Sunday to speak with her and cheer her up. It was getting a bit old referring to me in my former gender. After facial feminization surgery, there's no going back. That was in January.
My spouse's visit went very well. Her sister, who is a big supporter of mine was there with her, and helped their mum to "get it". And the ancient lady did get it, and in a kind and loving way. She was the last relative to get the message, and I'm so glad that that has been done.
I consider that fortune has blessed me greatly. I still have the same job. The relatives that cared for me before transition - still love me. and I am with a person who chose me years ago, and has chosen me again.
If you are entering transition, know that you must be prepared to lose everything, but you may be surprised - let love be your guide and remember that it will be more difficult for your loved ones to understand where you are going that it is for you. I know that I never found a reason or justification for being transsexual. I just know that it is something that I must do, or die. Retain and enhance your fine qualities, and your will be valued. Life may be kinder than you expect.

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