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carrell : (19 December 2014 - 01:40 PM) Any members in New Mexico ?
jennifer38 : (19 December 2014 - 12:16 PM) I still plan to have another phone conference, tomorrow.  All members are invited.  Details are on the calendar.
UsernameOpti... : (18 December 2014 - 07:55 PM) Happy Birthday to stephani
MonicaPz : (18 December 2014 - 06:17 PM) Happy birthday, Stephani!
AshMich1945 : (18 December 2014 - 10:57 AM) Hello...my name when I'm transformed, is Ashleigh Michelle James. I'm a lifelong cd/tg from sw Connecticut. I've been fascinated by female attire and femininity since I was very young. Now that I'm mature, I can enjoy all the benefits of being a woman. I hope to meet many more members from CT and share my experiences with them as well as possibly go out for shopping trips, coffee latches and brunch.
CharityLynnC... : (16 December 2014 - 01:24 AM) lol
veronicabeta : (15 December 2014 - 10:16 PM) Recalling all the times I cursed "dial up" and was worried the Interweb might have become self aware !
UsernameOpti... : (15 December 2014 - 09:30 PM) Duct tape, bailing wire, bubble gum and a good hammer will usually fix nearly anything!
Lori : (15 December 2014 - 08:43 PM) Sorry about the outage today. We had server problems but banging on it with a hammer seemed to work! ;)
CharityLynnC... : (15 December 2014 - 08:22 PM) what in the world cause this site to be down for a day...lol..tried to get on and got an sql server error..
jennifer38 : (15 December 2014 - 10:56 AM) I plan to hold another conference this Saturday at 3 PM Eastern.  For those who came to the last one, the number and meeting ID are the same.  Anybody who does not have the number and is interested, please message me, as I've been advised to not openly post the number and ID for fear of them falling into the hands of troublemakers.  Also, anytime I bring up religion and The Bible, it is not meant to intimidate or embarrass anyone.  I'm sorry if anyone feels put down, because I have no intentions of doing so.  In spite of my transgender feelings, I have a deep love for Christ, but I respect those who don't believe like I do.  My goal of these telephone chats is simply to create a telephone hang-out for us fellow trans on all levels of the spectrum, and for our allies.  I hope to see you all there.
cross2play : (13 December 2014 - 07:57 PM) I cross dresser 1st time in days & walked on high street as her it was amazingly incredible : cdsing in moderation he he !
PamalaFlinn : (12 December 2014 - 02:56 PM) Jay P . I am in Baltimore sometimes.
MonicaPz : (12 December 2014 - 01:15 PM) Jen, it was great, and I can't wait!
jennifer38 : (12 December 2014 - 01:12 PM) I thank everybody who called into my telephone conference.  It was wonderful.  I feel good about talking to others and hearing their perspectives.  Lord willing, I will hold another one, soon.  The conference number and ID will always be the same.  I will let you all know when I plan to do this, again.  God bless you all.
JayPea25 : (12 December 2014 - 11:50 AM) Anyone in Baltimore!?
veronicabeta : (12 December 2014 - 12:16 AM) Dug the Vid Warren. T.Y.!
Bonnie : (11 December 2014 - 02:45 PM) Fun video, Warren, except for the ending.  The jumping while running hand in hand.  It is good to see a video like this though.  Thank you.
jennifer38 : (11 December 2014 - 11:41 AM) This is a reminder about my telephone conference, tomorrow afternoon at 3 EST.  Come out and enjoy yourself.  This is a general chat about our various transgender feelings and issues.  This is a great way to get to know one another better.  Details are in the calendar.  If you have any questions, please message me.  Hope to see you there, tomorrow.
EmmaSweet : (09 December 2014 - 10:13 PM) Cool, Warren! Good thing they had subtitles. My Japanese is pretty weak!

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Another call to Mom.

Posted by Daneela , 30 December 2012 - - - - - - · 279 views
family, finances
I won't be going into all the background here. You can find that in my previous entry, "Why I Told Mom"

I'd been advised by my therapist that I should just wait for Mom to contact me. I'd followed that advice until this week. The day after Christmas, I called her to wish her happy holidays. That wasn't all we talked about.

Near...


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From: Why I told Mom

Posted by Daneela , 28 October 2012 - - - - - - · 252 views


We know I'm a woman. Very few other people know that; I first came out to myself, then my wife of 39 years and my daughter. After them, I explained to my older grandchildren that "sometimes a boy's brain gets born in a...


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Return

Posted by Daneela , 15 April 2012 - - - - - - · 237 views

I can't see when I last posted or even what I said.  I'm certain, though, it was quite some time ago. Many things were different than before and are different than now.

I've probably said before that I'm an alcoholic, though not recovering. I used it to drug myself into rest for the night. For over a decade, I had no trouble arising and...


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Religion or Spirituality

Posted by Daneela , 23 October 2011 - - - - - - · 265 views

Del's appearance in the forums and others' posts regarding their treatment at the hands of some Christians and Christian institutions prompts this entry today.  Originally, I was going to respond in a forum thread but then realized what I intend to share is much more than belongs there.  Some may call this a confession, others a testimony, others...


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Returning

Posted by Daneela , 18 September 2011 - - - - - - · 187 views

Well, the Boston job fell apart.  It turned out that my being hired was conditional and there was nothing I could do about it.  The condition?  The customer deciding to upgrade the system but that didn't happen.  I was there every day, never knowing my status.  Stressful, to say the very least.

So, the firm gave me no notice, just told me the customer...


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Moving on

Posted by Daneela , 16 May 2011 - - - - - - · 198 views

I've just completed my first day at the new job.  Believe me, the trip to get here was hellacious and not in a good sense.  You see, I thought I had a firm commitment to a rental car.  It turned out, when I stepped up to the counter to present my debit card, the agency refused to take it unless I showed them I was leaving town; they insisted on a return...


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Moving. On? Up? Forward? Uncertain

Posted by Daneela , 07 May 2011 - - - - - - · 199 views

I may have mentioned that I have been working on a military project this past year.  Well, that contract is closing soon and I've already been "laid off" by my employer.  This comes as no big surprise; I've been treated exactly like this by every consulting firm I've ever worked for and even in permanent positions when the company...


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The Grandkids

Posted by Daneela , 24 April 2011 - - - - - - · 145 views

Because school was closed for spring break, my 13 year old granddaughter and my 17 year old grandson asked if they could visit and stay overnight someday.  One reason is that our apartments have a pool and theirs doesn't.  Another might be that I have some cool, new games on my PC.  We agreed on Wednesday and my wife and I drove to their apartment home...


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His Needs v. Hers v. Mine

Posted by Daneela , 13 February 2011 - - - - - - · 599 views

I knew what I needed to share with you today.  That's part of myself.  You need to know why I'm exposing this now and not before.  That was/is him.  You need to know what I'm trying to deal with besides my body.  That's about her.  Three sets of needs and needs are more than wants, more than desires, more than wishes.  Needs are needs and...


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Happy New Year

Posted by Daneela , 31 December 2010 - - - - - - · 152 views

First, I'm wishing for your new year to be filled with happiness. I feel respected here.  I try to be very thoughtful in every way with everything I write in the message board and here.  Many of you have shared yourselves with us.  I've offered what I have.  Thanks for listening.

Wednesday I took the next tiny step on the journey.  I've been...






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