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  1. Good morning, the Transgender Discusion Locked Topic on VA Hospital care for Transgender patients is out of date and should be deleted. They are comming around. There are currently Transgender Care Clinics in 4 of their hospitals around the country. peace, Chara
  2. Keeping it hidden, even from a spouse often requires stealth or sneaky techniques. This could be the place to discuss those topics. For instance, does anyone use a PO box for mail order that you don't want comming to your home? - is it effective keeping all associated advertising mail away from you at home, or does some leak through to your RL? - do you use the Post Office or a third party establishment such-as a copy store? - do you take out the box in both your real name or enfemme name? Any problems associated with that? - other
  3. Char

    Wow, been a while.

    Manifesto of Chara Jo The world sees me a man, I am not! My brains sees me a woman, it is fooled! Truth both visible and invisible, I am both, and I am neither! I am the third gender, I travel apart.
  4. hello ladies, does anyone have any good resources for large sized shoes? I was blessed with a women's size 14 shoe. I am also 76 inches tall (( that sounds so much nicer that 6 feet 4 inches LOL )) I need to find a nice pair of sandals for the upcomming nicer weather. Sling Back's are also good if there is not more that an inch heal. you shorter ladies are so lucky that you can wear a sexy high heal without getting a nose bleed from the altitude.
  5. Hi girls, I use to have a fabulous wardrobe. Then on several stange days, I threw them out Now I am collecting outfits again. Maybe I just love shopping for clothes... I don't know. Maybe I love the feelings of danger while shopping for outfits while in DRAB. I had a lot of confidence shopping today at yet another Goodwill Store. It was full of women and a few men doing their own shopping. I guess if you shop with confidence, who is going to challenge you? I have back-up plan if I ever do get challenged by someone, especially if I run into someone i know. My storyline would be that I have a part time reseller business on ebay and womens clothes are always an easy sell. I could even be daring and talke about a big Cross Dresser Clientel --- followed by a little knowing wink and a smile. In fact I am pondering on making a few sales on ebay anyway. Especially for items that dont fit well or items that need a new home. I was even thinking of getting some business cards made with the TRANSGENDERED graphic on it and my Manifesto printed on the back. Peace my Friends, Charla Jo
  6. I don't think the guy was a true TS. I think his TG tendencies and activities was more of a hobby. His son being born shock him out of his "selfish" view point and he realized it was time to put away selfish toys and ideas and Man-Up for his family. I do think, however, that even if he puts his fem self in a box, in the back of his mind, she will on occcasion escape and re manifest. But this could again be a part time hobby. Personally I dont think he will every transition completely.
  7. The rabbit pokes her head up and takes a quick look around. LOL

  8. I saw and informercial on the Ahh Bra. Has anyone tried this? Any thoughts on it? http://www.ahhbra.com/ Peace my friends, Chara Jo
  9. Ok, I bought one one ebay and I am wearing it right now. And ya know, it really is very comfortable.
  10. Check it out: http://www.shemag.com/
  11. Char

    hi all, anyone help?

    why not pick up a subscription to Cosmpolitan Magazine. It is loaded with makeup and other beauty tips... plus it is a fun read.
  12. I don't agree with Gennee's last statement. You can't condem the innocent bystanders from not becomming actively involved. You can't tell if any of them are on their cell phones trying to call police for instance. There are not many in regular people in this day and age that will get themselves into someone elses business. It has been show time and time again that the person who puts him or herself into a volitile situation like this either gets heralded a hero (as in the case of the lady that did get involved) or most often gets sued by the perpertrators or the establishment. Other than being a good witness, the common person just doesnt have the STANDING to place themselves into the incident. You can't say that this attack was TG biased or even a hate crime because in the video interview of the victim that I saw, she said things that indicated that she was being treated as another any GG would in similar circumstances. Thus the severity of the criminal charges being only that of assault. And brutal as it seemed, unless it resulted in serious injury of death, the juveniles get abjucated in juvenile court and the adults go to district court as is right and proper in this country. Of course there are a thousand other factors that could be brought into this viewpoint such as race, social economic conditions, and the type of neighboorhood the attack took place in, but I am not typing very well today since I am currently suffering form tendonites or more commonly "tennis elbow" Peace my friends, Chara
  13. I found some that actually fit: http://largefeet.com...&variant_id=124 Another $200 spent... maybe this should be in the forum: I spend too much for clothes. LOL
  14. Char

    Forum question

    Why doesn't my profile picture show up to the left of my forum responses or message? :huh:
  15. How about a privacy deck where the neighbors cannot see. Or perhaps a boat in the middle of a large lake? Of course then there is the DNR Cops to worry about out in the lake. One hot day, i went out and mowed the lawn in my Jog Bra... it was a thrill and I got some nice tan lines. I even waved at some of the neighbors. Sunglasses are such a protection. Of course that was about ten years ago and I was much thinner then. LOL
  16. I like the various shades of purple and violet. Like the color and smell of a Lilac bush in the spring time. "Your turning VIOLET, Violet!" <-- Oh Willie Wonka, you're precious.
  17. Char

    Forum question

    Thanks UsernameOptional that did the trick... But I have another question. In most of the blogs here and in mine --- it says Category: Unclassified or something like that. Any idea what this is all about?
  18. TGirlAmber distributes a Dating Guide called, "T-Girl Dating Guide." It is a very nice read. In the chapter: "How should you address me and other T-Girls" starting on page 9, she provided a very complete glossary of terms. In reading this section, I learned a few things about myself that I did not even know. In fact, I am going to get my yellow highlighter out and mark up the glossary for everything that applies to me. That way on those "blue days" when I begin to hate myself, I can re-read it and remind myself that I am special in ways that most of this world's souls cannot begin to understand. So a big thank-you and Hug goes out to Amber for the convienient reality check.
  19. Nice intro above in the About Me section. It is a pleasure to meet you. You sound very interesting... you should start a blog.

  20. Char

    Shopping and pondering.

    I was out shopping today and got a few nice items. In fact, I am wearing my new necklace and skirt right now. Anyway, a couple of GG's walked by as I was pulling out of the parking lot and I found myself checking them out. I had the realization that I was looking not at them, but their clothes. The one had great fashion taste. Soon I was mentally taking her footwear off and putting on her a nice set of sexy strapy heal boots. I wondered for a few moments.... I such a girl in my thoughts.... I wonder what kind of thoughts a real guy has? Peace my friends, Charla Jo
  21. I was just up at the Goodwill Store. I was looking for a new skirt. I have been searching for a nice sexy denium skirt for a long time. Of course I found one that met almost all my requirements... it is only a size 16. I'm cursed with a size 24 body. I was half way home and still thinking about that skirt. I turned the car around and went in and bought it anyway. It was less than four dollars. So perhaps I will post it on Ebay. It is a Skort by the way. Looks like a skirt but is shorts. I think we ought to have a buy and sell forum here on the TG Guide Forums. I did find a nice longer skirt in a flower print pattern and it goes great with a top I alread had. I even found a nice bead necklace at another small thrift shop. Peace my friends, Chara Jo
  22. Should one of these squads need to surrender, they can wave the White Bra. LOL :lol:
  23. Shopping for new clothing is always expensive unless you look for bargins at a thrift shop for instance. it is getting nice out here in Iowa so today i am wearing my new cami top. It is purple and has black lace along the top edge. it is strechy and feels nice. I got it on a clearance sale from Lane Bryant. http://www.lanebryant.com/polka-dot-seamless-cami/p70699/index.pro Peace my friends, Char :P
  24. I gotta go out and arrest bad guys today... talk about putting on another mask. Or perhaps not a mask but just another layer. It's funny what we use as force fields to protect ourselves. Peace my friends!
  25. Thank-you friends for the warm birthday wishes.