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  1. Phoebe added a post in a topic Support Groups   

    Updates on two Minnesota support groups.

    1. Beta Gamma chapter of Tri-Ess was disbanded in 2000 and now the new chapter is Tau Epsilon Mu
    Minneapolis / St. Paul, MN Metro Area
    P.O. Box 40126
    St. Paul, MN 55104
    Phone: 612-870-8536
    Web Site:

    2. City of Lakes Crossgender Community

    City of Lakes Crossgender Community web account has been suspended.
    Hardly any of the members were using the web site. No one wanted to help with the cost of hosting the site.

    New contact information for City of Lakes Crossgender Community:

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  2. Phoebe added a topic in Transgender Events   

    Humphrey School of Public Affairs | University of Minnesota Twin Cities

    Link to web site for more information:

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  3. Phoebe added a post in a topic First Trans Woman Elected to DNC   

    A transwoman will be running for US house seat in district 2 in Minnesota as an Independent candidate. She received 285 votes in the recent primary, a long way to go. She is determined to make aware of not only transgender issues but all human rights issues.
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  4. Phoebe added a topic in Transgender Events   

    Transgender Day of Remembrance 2013
    Transgender Day of Remembrance
    TDoR Events and Locations 2013:
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  5. Phoebe added a post in a topic Breast growth using lavender oil   

    Shewear, What is amitriptalin? Tried to search that term and came up with references to a ant-depressant?
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  6. Phoebe added a post in a topic LGBT-Friendly Hospitals   

    Thank you for the listing. Now it would be great if Gender Reassignment Surgery returned to Minnesota as it once was at University of Minnesota Hospital in the 1970's by Hastings and Blum.
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  7. Phoebe added a post in a topic Churches need a reminder   

    Read today that some churches are severing ties from Boy Scouts due to the policy to allowing gay boy scouts join!

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  8. Phoebe added a topic in Transgender News & Happenings   

    Jo Anne Roberts passed away
    Jo Anne Roberts who helped start The Renaissance Transgender Association, Inc. Passed away. Jo Anne Roberts also edited and produced "LadyLike" Magazine as well as other crossdresser books and articles @ CDS publications Here is a post by Dallas Denny of Chrysalis Quarterly: http://dallasdenny.c...joanne-roberts/Jo Anne Roberts also started Transgender Forum renamed TG Forum currently edited by Angela Gardner. TG Forum is free and need to register to read articles and posts:

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  9. Phoebe added a post in a topic Using Breast Enhancement Pumps   

    Purchased the vacuum system from Noogleberry: There is a dropdown currency for USD. Probably start with the small cups as that is where I started. Thought extra small might be to small and would need to get a larger size sooner. Took about ten days to arrive in my mail box after placing the order.

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  10. Phoebe added a post in a topic Using Breast Enhancement Pumps   

    Have been using Noogleberry http://www.noogleber...iewCat&catId=23 vacuum system for eighteen months. I went from small pecks to "A" cup size over that time. One consideration is after using the system your 'pecks' turn reddish after use. There is a forum for Noogleberry to read results and questions: The method used was seven minutes of vacuum pressure, two minutes release of pressure over two half hour periods each day. After the third seven minute session was able to fill the small cup fully. However after six hours the swelling went down about half. I have maintained the "A" cup size and continue to use the system a few times a week to maintain what I have gained. Your experience may be different from mine or others who have posted on the Noogleberry forum.

    Note: The so called breast pumps found on eBay for $20.00 are not even worth $1.00! I tried similar about ten years ago. The cups cracked after three uses. If the item is Noogleberry then might ask the seller if they had issues with cracking cups. The older cups were not a thick as the present cups from Noogleberry and they cracked easily. I have no cracks in the cups since started use of Noogleberry device.

    There is also a system called "Bosom Beauty" that is similar to Noogleberry, it uses a 'pulsed' on off of vacuum. Have read that the cups that come with "Bosom Beauty" also may crack.

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  11. Phoebe added a post in a topic Historic day May 14, 2013 in Minnesota   

    I worked in Ft Lauderdale, FL a few winters. It was nice and warm and even HOT at times. The humidity was difficult to adjust to. Minnesota has maybe a few weeks late August of high humid weather coupled by 90 degree temperatures. Also lived in the Chicago, IL area for six years, not quite as cold as Minnesota, still was "homesick" and returned to Minnesota after the contract agency folded that provided me employment there.
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  12. Phoebe added a post in a topic Historic day May 14, 2013 in Minnesota   

    Under the Minnesota Human Rights Act, transgendered individuals -- like all other Minnesotans -- are entitled to be free from discrimination based on their sexual orientation. This protection extends, with some limitations and exceptions, to all areas covered by the Act: employment, housing, public accommodations, public services, education and business and credit. Transgendered individuals are not entitled to have their sexual orientation "reasonably accommodated" by an employer or anyone else. A reasonable accommodation is typically a modification of some kind, as might be provided in a work environment for an individual with a disability"
    Also some of the major Fortune 500 companies here in Minnesota are allowing MTF use women's restrooms, also many are installing gender neutral restroom and locker changing faculties.

    Also some of those same companies are providing health benefits for individuals undergoing transition, therapy, needed medications and GRS. One MTF had most of their transition expenses covered by their companies health plan. There were a few out of pocket expenses, such as the cost of flight to and from the clinic where the surgery was performed.

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  13. Phoebe added a topic in Transgender Events   

    New date for Minnesota Trans Health and Wellness Conference
    A new date has been set for Minnesota Trans Health and Wellness Conference. It will be held October 11-13 2013 at Hamline University in St. Paul, Minnesota. Located on Snelling Ave approximately two miles north of I-94. Speakers and vendors are being set up. More information as news is released.

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  14. Phoebe added a topic in Not Necessarily the [Trans] News   

    Historic day May 14, 2013 in Minnesota
    At noon today Governor Mark Dayton signed the "Freedom To Marry" bill or otherwise known as "Same Sex Marriage" bill. This probably does not affect most transgendered persons, however may be a step forward for future transgender rights law in Minnesota. Minnesota does have a decent transgender law, however the wording needs to be updated. Sexual orientation was added to the Human Rights Act in 1993

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  15. Phoebe added a post in a topic Medicare and SRS   

    I am on Medicare, however was told by clinic at University of Minnesota Program in Human Sexuality that I am to old for SRS. I am 74 years old. Also have developing health issues as I age that also may be of concern to consider by gender dysphoria therapists.

    Would have been great to find out about Gender dysphoria and SRS back around 1981 in Chicago, IL area. Felt that at the time if I had gone to a 'shrink' they would have tried to tell me they didn't know what I was feeling and probably tell me to be "a man". I didn't know about Dr Benjamin back then or any place to go to find out why I felt I wanted to become a fully functioning female.

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  16. Phoebe added a topic in Transgender Events   

    Post your area's Pride event
    The annual Pride Festival in Minneapolis, Minnesota will be June 29th and 30th 2013. The Pride Festival is held at Loring Park near downtown Minneapolis. The Pride parade will be in downtown Minneapolis Sunday June 30th starting at 11 AM. https://www.tcpride....=blog&Itemid=29

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  17. Phoebe added a topic in Transgender Events   

    Transgender Day of Celebration Minneapolis, MN May 19
    Those who might be in Minneapolis, Minnesota on Sunday May 19th, 2013 there will be the second annual Transgender Day of Celebration picnic at Minnehaha Falls Park. From 4 pm to 10 PM.

    Two years ago at the Transgender Day of Remembrance services in Minneapolis, MN, they opened the floor for announcements and discussion after the remembrance service was completed. Someone suggested a summer event as TDoR is celebrated 20 November when it usually cold and possibly snow or icy in Minneapolis, MN. (If I recall the temperature was 10F and there was ice on the sidewalks leading to the church entry. I braved the elements and wore a tweed skirt with a satin liner, nylons, two inch heels and my new ski jacket). A committee was formed and the first Transgender Day of Celebration took place last summer at Powederhorn Park in south Minneapolis. The event was well attended by both TG and those who support them.

    If your interested in more information PM please!

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  18. Phoebe added a post in a topic License Changes For Trangender Drivers   

    Transgendered person in Minnesota can obtain a Drivers License with a F gender marker. However one still needs a letter from a therapist to present to the court to file for name and gender marker changes. Also depends on the county in which the hearing is held and sometimes even the judge who hears the case. Some counties are fairly easy. Hennepin county (Minneapolis) can be difficult sometimes having to "jump through hoops" in order to have their name and gender change order.
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  19. Phoebe added a post in a topic Pantyhose/tights which lift and seperate bum cheeks   

    Maybe try The Stocking store:
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  20. Phoebe added a post in a topic Wyoming-Religion Over Rights   

    The issue of same sex marriage may be taken up by the Minnesota legislature this session. There seems to be a lot of support for a bill this session on same sex marriage. Depends on other issues to be decided.
    The US Supreme Court may take up same sex marriage and possibly gay rights this session. The California Proposition 8 case may be reviewed by the court. If there is a ruling on the case, the ruling most likely will have an effect on other states same sex marriage laws.
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  21. Phoebe added a post in a topic Nylon stockings or pantyhose   

    Nylon stockings held up with a garter belt. I ordered a new supply of nylon stockings today: https://www.stocking...oductCode=C1440 in black regular size and one garter belt: http://www.stockings...ductCode=SPC800 size 30 in white.
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  22. Phoebe added a topic in Transgender News & Happenings   

    Psychiatry expert: ‘scientifically there is no such thing as transgender’

    Psychiatry expert: ‘scientifically there is no such thing as transgender’: http://www.lifesiten...-as-transgender

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  23. Phoebe added a post in a topic First Trans Woman Elected to DNC   

    Hopefully there will be a Trans Woman running for congress in the district I live for the 2014 election.
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  24. Phoebe added a post in a topic 2012 Transgender Conferences   

    Yes I agree with your post Bonnie. If it were not for the internet where would transgendered persons find information? Myself found a copy of IFGE's Tapestry: early 1990's in a adult book store and subscribed to that magazine for a few years before the internet was ported to the general public. Also subscribed a few years to JoAnn Roberts "Ladylike" magazine after viewing the Ladylike ad in Tapestry magazine: JoAnn Roberts also hosts a forum TG Forum: You will be requested to sign up to read all the content on that forum.
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  25. Phoebe added a post in a topic 2012 Transgender Conferences   

    ‘Be-All’ Chicago transgender conference called off after 30 years

    by Tony Merevick on December 29, 2012

    From the Chicago Phoenix news: http://chicagophoeni...ence-cancelled/

    Is this the beginning of future for transgender conference cancellations?

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