Growing up as a male, you are expected to do male things such as the clothes you wear, your friends, your occupation, military service, drinking beer, hunting, fishing etc.
It's not the activities for the most part, but the pressure to do them to conform.
Why can't I wear women's underwear. Why can't I cry. Why can't I be accepted for who I am.
Many years I went deer hunting, and underneath the blaze orange outerwear I wore a nice bra and panty set while in the deer blind. Talk