Just Say Something?

In all my years hanging out in bars with the guys or alone as a guy-there were several times when I felt I wanted to approach a girl that was sitting close to me.

I have always been a reasonably shy person,plus my transgender background usually played a role. Would the woman even want me to approach? I really don't like pushy guys and I expect most women don't either.

Usually, I took the easy way out. I kept ordering drinks to build my confidence to talk to her...and she left.

I'm fairly certain the same thing happened to me tonite.

I was finishing up my evening at a favorite pub watching the baseball playoffs About halfway through the game, a guy grabbed the stool next to me and ordered the nightly beer special.

As the innings progressed, I noticed he switched to mixed drinks and was ordering when I was. Then-I left.

I will never know if he was "tracking" a transgendered "Cougar" or if the whole situation was a just part of my imagination.

Maybe that's the best part!