Well I don't know. Of course, guys like to have some skinny girl on their arm in public, but in bed? Well I'll leave the verdict open on that one. I think this is more about competing wiv other women than attracting men. I've noticed that most women have a little curve on their stomach. It can be kind of attractive. It suggests fertility, softness, and femininity. I think we worry too much about weight. Nobody wants to be obese, but a few extra pounds, does it really matter. And you know, you're never gonna be 16 again. You're chasing an impossible dream my darlings. But what do I know. Oh dear, this sounds really bitchy. You go for it girls. I'm just jealous cos I'm a big fatty. Take care, HL.