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We are still tossing around names.  Deedee would be easy because it is her initials anyway, but if we had a girl in our family, we always said we would name her Joy.  We just had our 2 boys, and that name, Joy, has always felt like it belonged in our family, and since we couldn't give it to one of our kids, this seems like an option.  It is still under discussion

(L) Thank you for the advice.  I agree about the moving somewhere that is welcoming.  That is the part that we haven't figured out yet.  Our original plan was smack in the middle of the bible belt, and may now not be the best, though I do have family there that I would love to spend time with.  Deedee is a 'hothead', to put it midly lol.  She always has been, and always will be.  I work around it the best I can, and she has gotten tremendously better over the last 5 years with the outbursts.  Everything in life is a journey to making us better people, if we allow it.  We kind of wanted this to be a journal, with both of us retelling our stories, in our own versions, so this works right now, though in the future, we might want to break away and do separate things.