Dear Friends,
Have found a roommate on Fantasia Fair's Facebook page.
But now for the better news . . . I just learned today that Fantasia Fair is extending their early bird rate of $510.00 for the week until the end of June! You can pay half to lock in the special price, but, instead of paying half, you can ask them to break it up into thirds.
They will be meeting in beautiful Provincetown MA from Sunday, October 17th to Sunday, October 24th. Some meals are included.
Please
Dear Friends,
Have a double King Size bedded room at The Boat Slip Resort while I attend the Fantasia Fair from Sunday, October 17th to Sunday, October 24th.
Seeking a platonic female roommate.
To learn more about Fantasia Fair and The Boat Slip Resort, check it out by Googling "Fantasia Fair."
Please drop me a PM to learn more.
Thank you for considering me as your roommate.
Yours truly,
Monica
Dear friends,
A few days ago a friend passed on some information that might be helpful to you and I.
This coming Saturday, August 22nd, a generous Speech Language Pathologist and gender voice specialist, Nicole Gress, MS, CCC, SLP, is starting to offer free monthly classes on Zoom, at 10 AM Pacific and 1 PM Eastern times.
If you would like to learn more or sign up, here's her contact information:
Website:
https://letstalk.mykajabi.com/gender-voice-tension-workshop
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https://www.transclinique.com
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Dear Friends,
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Met wonderful people on the train, including a best selling Western au
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Presently the public housing I am in (Dutchess County, New York State - although it has shown improvement recently, it is still very trans and homo phobic), and the housing itself is going very quickly downhill. Of course, it is unrea
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