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SOs in my past and current SO in my life now


DebraMichelle

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SOs in my past and current SO in my life,it wasn't easy at first.The 4 SOs I dated before I met my wife Choe were not supportive,they wanted me to purge and get rid of the wardrobe.I told them no,had to do the transformation when they were gone or go to a friend's house to do the transformation.I broke up with the first 3 SOs.Made the mistake of getting married to the 4th one and had her put in jail.She decided to attempt to steal my femme wardrobe and sell it.Did try to deny it,caught on video doing it.I did call the cops and decided to press charges.While she was in jail,I thought it over and knew I deserved better.I went to see my lawyer and filed for divorce surprising her.When she got bailed out,served the divorce papers to her and signed them.Luckily she was convicted of breaking and entering getting a 90 day sentence in jail.I did prevail in the divorce,judge saw she put me through a lot,this was in 2006.Took a year off before I started dating again in 2008.In January of 2008,my life changed around and a light through the tunnel finally.I met my wife Chloe through a friend of mine.Chloe saw I was very different and taught me something.She loves me for who I am and taught me not to give up.She sees Debra Michelle as a girlfriend in her life and has been supportive ever since.She loves my German accent too,into European guys.I married her in 2011 and been happy ever since.I put the painful past behind me and moved on.

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Dear DebraMichelle,

Am so proud of you that you nipped an abusive relationship in the bud, and that you did not marry the three other unsupportive ones!

There are many good women who are attracted to and marry transgender women, because they tend to be much kinder and gentler. Many will say, "they were so much more different than any other man I dated," even before they knew they were transgender. They knew something was different about them, even before they had a word for it!

Bravo for the open-minded judge!

Yours truly,

Monica

 

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