Female to Male (FtM) Crossdressers Discussion

Hey all, This question is deeper than it looks. There are obvious differences between the definitions of cross dresser and tom boy, but yet... I look at myself and wonder either where the line comes that it's cross dressing, freedom of expression, I'm not totally sure. I wear mostly boys clothes. I'd say my closet is about 80-90% bought from some mens department or another. Occasionally I will buy female jeans, but even there I have switched mostly to guys jeans. I identify as gender variant, because I feel very masculine but am happy with my female body (okay, for the most part. I do have some dysphoria). But for now I figure this is where I should post this... …

I'm really just trying to make conversation here, since this wing of the forums is rather empty. While it is true I am an MtoF, I do, very occasionally, cross dress. Perhaps I merely have an overdeveloped sense of irony, but dressing up as a guy can be kind of fun on occasion. The first time I really did male drag was at a Karaoke drag night which was put on by a youth group I went to. Being transsexual, this presented a bit of a delima. I could be laim and just dress the way I normally do, perhaps being mistaken for somebody in drag (which would crush me) or dress in all out MtoF drag, proclaiming myself a fake to all. I decided that neither of these options was t…

Hello everyone, here’s the latest update from Leslie/Lester and shadowman. As our wedding date draws nearer, things in our neck of the woods have been proceeding almost according to plan. Leslie’s and my relationship is as strong as ever. Lester has become a valued friend, even a “buddy.” He, as Dr. Smith prescribed, shows up two weekends a month and whenever Leslie’s girlfriends need an escort. Lately, though, three things have happened that I thought I should run past you: 1.) Leslie has a girlfriend whom I’ll call “Kara.” Aside from Megan, Kara has stuck by Leslie through thick and thin. And of course, Kara is well-acquainted with Lester. Chronically unluc…