This can certainly be a difficult period, when you're transitioning but haven't physically transitioned so much. I recently thought about the fact that getting into a relationship right now could be very confusing and it sounds like what you're going through may be the embodiment of those thoughts, so i wish you the best as you work things through :-) As for your bf's homophobia, I think blaming parents only goes so far, at some point a person becomes responsible for their own thoughts and feelings (unless they were completely brain-washed as children). Having said that, he is facing the issue under circumstances that most people don't, so I can definitely see the case for giving him time.
Karen, You have them reserved for the Bedroom only - You really ARE enciurageable, Karen. Sweet Lady, at least You know how to have fun. Karen, You keep on having fun. Life is for enjoying Love. I hope Your Car trip goes well on Saturday, and it is so nice that You can enjoy doing that as well. Karen, Take Care, With Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx