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I miss our cat too. I miss the funny, weird things she did, and the recliner cuddles. She was awesome, and just suddenly gone and it's okay that it hurts. It's SUPPOSED to hurt. If it didn't, it would mean that you didn't love her, and you loved your cat a lot. We'll get through this, and everything will be okay. Not tomorrow, not next month, but soon and and bit by bit. I can be patient while we do, and you've been good about listening when I tell you how some of your behaviors make me feel. The fact that you CARE is really what matters most to me, not how succesful you are or aren't on a particular day. And the fact that you care about YOURSELF enough to get help to feel is huge. So many people with the various forms of depression just sort of form an identity around it, and accept that's how life is and don't stand up and say "I want to feel better". You're miles ahead of a lot of people, and I'm grateful for it. Love you, in all your cranky and quirky glory.