Kyriele

Dana...thank you. That was eloquent and poignant. I am dealing with the OTHER side of this issue: neither my H nor B has ever had a relationship with either gender. Always everything would be sabotaged so that no one could find out who lived under the B's skin. Men couldn't love B. Women couldn't love H. I feel myself helpless and shut down...because I could love both in any way s/he needs. Thank you so much for this blog.