Well put Veronica and cross2play. It is something I have gone back and forth with too. Years ago I was going to join a friend in going to Mexico for breast surgery but chickened out at the last minute. Maybe if I was 20 I would reconsidered but now I am very passable and comfortable in my silicone breast and can change between a b cup and a dd depending on my mood. I would also reconsider if I had a partner that would pay for it and wanted me to do it but never been asked. So why upset the applecart at this stage. Keep it simple and be happy
I am a size 11 in shoes too and have found payless has a great selection at low prices. Never had any problems with sales clerks and find them very helpful there. Only scarey in the beginning but now very comfy in target and big dept stores during the days.
Oh yes femininity really takes over me when dancing and being led by an older man on the dance floor. All kinds of submissive and amorous feelings come to the forefront and love the attention. Never was really into sports since I am so petite but when out now en femme mode I enjoy pllaying golf with my bf and probably enjoy it cause I dont have to compete and can just enjoy the outing as a playful girl
I first started learning to walk but wearing 3 inch heels and a sack skirt for shorter strides. A girl has to be confident who she is taking shorter steps and using your hips for movement. I see now where men balance from the shoulders and arms move a lot so keeping the arms in , chest out , and shoulders back is a good start. Hands to your side or clutching your purse so that arent swinging like guys. I find myself doing this now even when out and not en femme. Certainly feels more elegant and graceful too
First choice is the disabled bathroom but suck it up and walk into the womens room which would be safer if anyone is going to get upset I dont want it to be some redneck. Having said that I just walk in and close the door to the stall like everyone else and any socializing that takes place is at the mirror and sink so if I feel uncomfortable I might just walk out. Had only one time been called out on it by an older lady. Of course dont walk in if youre dressed like a hooker now lol.
so well said Kathryn. So many girls try stepping out in public with too much makeup or overdressed and wonder why ppl stare. I enjoy going out with my friends and sometimes they are so over the top I am forced to say something but not hurtful. Its all in the confidence and attitude and just being natural will allow all of us wonderful experience
Wear tights in winter and when cold. They also look great in short dresses and long blouses. Like most of you I also prefer stockings to pantyhose and love them seemed or fishnet when really dressing up
I just got the inclination one day at home alone to try on my sisters clothes. I did enjoy the sensation and was a bit sexual at first but as time progressed I began to feel the emotional support of being debbie was who I was most comfy with. I am now pretty out and dressed in evenings and weekends. Only time I am in male mode is during work and that is a drag. I enjoy both sides of me but my feminine side is so much more desireable and the friends I have allow me to live it out.
Well Josiekat we all went through purging especially in the beginning and what a waste of money and time. Purging does nothing but empty the bank account sis. On the other hand I agree there are some people you have to keep it a secret. I look back and realize it wasnt such a good idea to come out to my parents since I live so far away now and wasnt necessary. Not sure they ever accepted or tolerated it so use your discretion with that one sis.
The experience of being treated and accepted as a lady is important to me as well. I take time to present myself for the occasion and thats mostly in heels and hose. I am very concerned about makeup and hair before leaving the house .
Gee Kaylee we all remember how difficult it was at first but you survived it well. I started by shopping for clothes at the thirft shops during days and had no problems. eventually we all get more confidence and soon I was shopping in total femme at target and payless and did get some stares of wonderment from the younger clerks. Just be yourself and dress passable like its natural and you wont think about what ppl may be thinking. Now I am comfy in the malls and public forums but only during the days. you go girl
the best part of the support groups I have attended over the years has been the connections I have made with others in my situation and can relate too. It is a wonderful feeling to be in a room of ppl that accept you as you are and have real conversations about life. Sure understand your feelings and encourage it with those of you afraid to try it
Yea I enjoy running and cycling at the club and avoid all upper body weights. Only do the machines for my tummy and hips at the club. dont want the body mass now. also told that swimming is great workout for a girl
I was 20 and drove to a target store . Took a deep breathe and walked in wearing a dress wig and heels. I walked about the store looking at tops like no big thing. Went to shoe dept and tried on some shoes and found what I was looking . The girl at the register treated me now different than anyone else and left. When I got to the car I was exhausted and thrilled. Spent the day then just driving around town
I can relate to that silkie. At first it was curiousity and then became a way of sexual excitement . After a while I just realized I enjoyed being a girl and treat like one. Now I just date men and hang out with my tg friends most of the time. It's not so much sexual anymore but something I feel is natural and have seriously considered transitioning .
thanks for the advice of using lavendar oil topically. I think my breast have developed by wearing my silicone breast glued on and weighing down the tissue. I will give it a try since I love the smell of lavendar
We all remember our first times since it is so scarey. I remember being at home alone and putting on my sisters skirt and blouse and took a drive to goodwill where I walked about unnoticed. Then on so Marshall and payless where I bought shoes . I think the counter girl suspected but didnt say a thing. After that I was walking the streets and malls for a few weeks and then onto the tg clubs on friday nights. Never looked back and knew I was addicted. Debbie