minyteTX

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About minyteTX

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  • Birthday 09/29/1969

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  1. minyteTX added a blog entry in Roberta Midnyte's Blog   

    Life as I know it, or at least how I think I know my life
    I have been on this site for awhile now, and have met some great people and a very supportive group. Just a little about my self, I am an MtF crossdresser/transgender, not totally sure where I fit in there, I have been doing a lot of soul searching these past couple of weeks and am still not sure where I am going with this side of my life. I go to work in boy mode, dressed for the most part androgynous, as that is how I feel comfortable. Always underdressed with a bra (padded) and panties on, cause I can get away with it for the most part un-noticed. I am looking into finding a therapist to explore this further, as some times I really feel like this is what I should be, and others I'm not sure. I have had this side looked in a closet for more yrs then I would care to count, and am now finally able to express it. Sometimes I wish that I could full time, at work I have to catch myself at times when going to the restroom not going in the wrong one, or wanting to stop at the mirror to check my makeup, as I typically wear eyeshadow. It's one of the little things that I can get away with it at work, since it's not really noticed with my glasses on.
    I have come out to some people out side of my friends on line that I know and the meetup group that I belong to, and for the most part they are very supportive of me. I even came out to my ex wife, and she was surprisingly very supportive and understanding when I told her that I really need some time to myself on a weekend, so have been cut back to getting my kids every other weekend, which gave me a lot of time to think about what I want for myself and where I am going in my life. I haven't really come out to my younger 2 boys (ages 4 and 7), but I have talked to my oldest son (13), and of course he had the hardest question to answer of "why?" I tried to explain to him some of the reasons why that I did know.
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  2. minyteTX added a post in a topic: Coming out to someone....   

    Halloween party was an absolute blast. This is what I wore for the party.

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  3. minyteTX added a post in a topic: I love this an want it   

    Those look cute.
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  4. minyteTX added a post in a topic: My new look...   

    Thanks Bonnie, I've been told that by quite a few people. Though sometimes the Blonde looks great depending on what I am wearing
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  5. minyteTX added a post in a topic: Your first experience dressed in public?   

    I had my first evening out, outside of the meetup group on Weds evening to go to a couple of the local Goodwill stores, as every third Weds of the month is 50% off, and I found my little black dress and a few other things.

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  6. minyteTX added a post in a topic: Coming out to someone....   

    Thanks Kristi, I get out with the meetup every Mon night, and am going to a Halloween party tomorrow night, going to be a blast.
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  7. minyteTX added a post in a topic: I hate shoes!   

    You might try this place, that I have found out about from the meetup group I belong to in my area, but they ship internationally...
    http://www.torrid.com/torrid/Homepage.jsp
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  8. minyteTX added a post in a topic: Coming out to someone....   

    I've got to say she was very accepting and I have gained an ally in this venture of my life, we had a blast.....I could not have asked for a better birthday then the one I had last night.....Chix rocked the House last night, it was a great show.....and my friend she would go out to another event like this with me, which really made my evening when she told me this on the way home......I'm already talking to the ex about keeping the kids on Oct 20th, so that can go to Halloween (Fem-o-Ween) party....

    This a pic of me with Chix...

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  9. minyteTX added a post in a topic: Coming out to someone....   

    Who knows? I have told her that going to a friend's house that is going to help me with my makeup, so maybe she is accepting, but given the environment that the party is, I think she will accept this side of me....Considering Sue Ellen's (the venue) is a Lesbian bar, I think things will work out....
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  10. minyteTX added a post in a topic: Coming out to someone....   

    Okay, so I am going to big party/bash tonight with a lot of other TG/CD friends, to see a TG band that is playing, and I've invited a very good friend of mine that I have known for many yrs, and she is the first person outside of the meetup group that I have come out to...It's my birthday and a few of the others in the group share today/tomorrow as their birthday also, so it's going to be a lot of fun....but I'm a little nervous about coming out to her...I have told her about the band and she is accepting of that, but I don't know if she will accept this side of me....I'm not into guys, very much into GG's so I will see what happens....Any thoughts or suggestions?
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  11. minyteTX added a post in a topic: My new look...   

    I still haven't decided which I like better....I like both of them so much....Don't worry tbirdgal, I don't go any where near even getting on Harry Hines, whether I've been drinking or not....Sue Ellen's is a blast, and I didn't know it till I was doing some research to find other CD/TG friendly bars and stuff, that Sue Ellen's is a Lesbian bar, but on Monday night Us girls outnumber the regular patrons there....
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  12. minyteTX added a post in a topic: My new look...   

    It's a place in Dallas, TX called Sue Ellen's....they are very welcoming of us girls, I'm a member of a meetup here called Feminine Expressions and it's a great group, and we have a blast every Monday night that we meet up there....going to a show there on Saturday which is my birthday also, with a band called Chix that is playing that night....going to be a Blast...
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  13. minyteTX added a post in a topic: My new look...   

    I've decided to change my look and want to know the thoughts of others.....should I keep the blonde? or stay with what is in my signature pic...

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  14. minyteTX added a post in a topic: nightgowns   

    I've some nylon pants and either a chemise or shorty night gown....and my padded bra and panties and I sleep so much better then I did with guy's short and tshirt
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  15. minyteTX added a post in a topic: frequency of dressing   

    I underdress all the time, it just doesn't feel right if I don't have a bra on when I go out anywhere, whether going to work as a guy or relaxing at home in jeans or a skirt and a Tshirt or some other top....
    I still have guys clothes, just for work and then unisex stuff that I wear on weekends when I have my kids, but when I'm at home by myself or going out someplace, almost all girl's stuff.....
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