Another article on birthright Citizenship. Mostly LGBT couples are mentioned here, but I wonder how many cis hetero couples are affected by this? Is it random? or is it selective?https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/both-parents-are-american-the-us-says-their-baby-isnt/ar-AABGXbe?ocid=spartandhp
Well, I have come a long way since joining TGG just last August. I am on HRT. Almost finished with Laser and about half way with electrolysis. Am have my first non-surgical facial feminization procedure next week. I fake 000% male now and have, ever since I had the "talk" with my 23 year old son about 2 months ago. We are still very close and both jump at the chance to do things together whenever we get the chance whether out in public or not. I travel every couple of weeks back and forth
Well, this week (today), took my first doses for HRT.🙋♀️😊. Spiro and estrogen injection. Should have started one week ago, but one screw up after another delayed things unnecessarily. First my lab results were not timely faxed from my PCP to my Gender Specialist. Friday, Monday calls then finally Tuesday morning when they still weren't faxed I had to demonstrate what Jess can be like on hormones and they were sent right over despite being available since the previous Friday. Then it was tim
Well. I had that long anticipated and dreaded "talk" with my son today that his Dad was transgender. He's 23 years old; we're very. very close, and have gotten even closer since his mother passed away. He works in a field that typically is full of "transgender bashing jokes", and has had very little if any exposure to the reality of gender diversity. All he has heard comes from his peers who are equally clueless. So, he came over today and I told him that I had something very important to di
Last week I had an opportunity to attend my second Transgender Conference in Pennsylvania; having only attending my first just 8 weeks earlier in Boston. I hadn't really definitively planned to, but another TG member offered to share the cost of accommodations at the Convention Center and the schedule fell in line with my planned travel from Florida to NY. My first Event, in Boston, appropriately billed as The First Event, was a big test for me. Having preparing for many years to step out in
Last weekend was a long weekend off for me, Friday, Sat, Sun and Monday off from my "retirement" part time job with a Medi- Transportation Co., picking up clients and bringing them to their medical appointments. Was looking forward to the continuity of being able to live life just as Jess, and I did just that. By Monday night, I dreaded Tuesday having to return to boy mode and go back to work. That evening, I got my text from the boss, also a business friend, for Tuesday's assignment asking
Saratoga Pride is an LBGTQ group outside of my hometown but close enough that I thought it would be worthwhile to check out. I stumbled upon it from meeting Amy a few weeks ago. They were having their annual dinner last night at a small restaurant/ pub, "50 South", just outside Saratoga, NY. There was a rather small group there, about 30, less than I expected, not knowing what to expect, which also was good as it made for a more intimate setting. (I give the restaurant a 5 of 5 on the food a
The final day of the Event, even though I'm staying till tomorrow morning. Slept real late for me again (till 8:00) ; up and at-em; gotta make breakfast in time, and they stop serving at 11. Got down to the lobby by 10 and sad to see so many people checking out and leaving.😢 So headed right for breakfast and was cheered up immediately! Joined Andrea, who I loved and mentioned before, and her new business partner. They do electrolysis and laser. Spent an hour and a half talking, not about th
Saturday morning, slept till 7! Ugh. Got to jump up and fly getting ready in time to help at The Closet clothing boutique. Need to go to breakfast first, too, Always meet somebody new there and really look forward to it and enjoy it. Forgot to mention, yesterday, met Erin at breakfast. She seemed kind of shy , so I asked her to join me. (I hate to sit alone...most of the time). From northern Maine, not a place where she can be out easily. An hour talking over breakfast and yet another frie
Well had a ton going on Friday. When I came down for breakfast, the attendance had grown to 8-900, I had heard. All types of real people, flamboyant, discreet, flashy, cis-gender, bi-gender, cross dressers, transitioning in all different stages, many final, many their first time out, (like me). Young, senior, ( I was gonna say old, but none of us are old), shy, outgoing, all different in many ways but we were the same our whole lives, just hadn't met each other. We were about to, though!
Thursday was when people were arriving in groves. I would estimate that attendance grew from 100 or more to well over 600. Some workshops were scheduled; I attended "Work it Girl! Posing to perfection." and "About Face The Alchemy of Make-up". Both were well presented, I learned a lot that I use now. I think my make-up has improved ten-fold from before. Well worth it.💇♀️ after dinner, socializing in the lounge and lobby until the Dance party with DG Gregg. Notably, met Linda and became
This gal's been busy this past week😱. Met my therapist for the first session last Friday, then right back to Boston to finish out First Event. Wednesday, talked to my electrologist about scheduling something soon. I found her searching the internet long ago and was very happy to learn at First Event she was highly recommended and known. ☺️. Tried to walk in, but no one was there, so called and left a message and she called me back same evening. I told her right off the bat I was transition
Wednesday was the official first day of the Convention, but not a whole lot was scheduled. I woke early, took about 3 1/2 hours to get ready (which was record time for me at that point), and went down to the lobby to see what was going on. Some people were just arriving, most were in their male persona, unpacking their luggage from their cars, all with an exuberant look in their faces and an excited attitude in their strides seeming so happy to finally be here. I went to the restaurant in th
I've always needed some questions answered as a matter of fact, not a matter of hope, wishful thinking or dreaming and be sure I was comfortable with those answers. What truly would it mean to me to be Jessica, socialize as Jessica, think as Jessica, look as Jessica, go out around town only as Jessica, work as Jessica; how would it feel to not be able to go back; might I regret it or would I embrace it and continue wishing I had the courage to transition long ago??
I heard about Transge
Well, I attended my first Transgender Conference this past week called the First Event held annually just outside Boston. It is the first and oldest conference for Transgenders in the United States. Arrived Tuesday night even though it started Wednesday and ran through Sunday.. I didn't check out until this morning, Monday. I'll start my blogs, of which there will be many more about it, from the end, because today could not have been made possible without my experience during the past week. I
Since joining Td Guide and networking with many in the community and exploring much of the resource materials on transitioning, I've learned of many of the terms used, and obstacles and goals one encounters when transitioning. One that stands out is "Presentation". Presenting female for the MTF group of us and I assume the FTM group, too is a major concern and is kind of a Pre-requisite tor eventually achieving a full transition. We often think we're too tall, too heavy, too ugly, There are
I'm in!! On Cloud 9, (or 10 maybe) at the moment. The therapist I've chosen, great reputation for transitioning clients, and I've been working on it all week, contacted me and is setting up my appointments, and I should know tomorrow when my first session is. Still trying to get in before First Event, but most likely will be right after First Event.
Real funny thing....just a little story. This past week I've been helping my son move into an apartment closer to his work. About an hour
Well, had the day planned again with the house to myself all day and tonight, this time from 6am on. Figured I'd be ready in Jess mode early, by 8 or 9, and take off!💇♀️☝️ Know a couple of churches that are trans welcoming within driving distance that wouldn't know me and that was going to be my first stop. Afterwards was gonna check out a couple of quaint cafe's in the same area I know and MAYBE have a light lunch, if I worked up enough guts after church. I think I would have! Have been
Well a lot's happening with my presenting, and MY CONFIDENCE! 💇♀️. Have had many opportunities to sit tight by myself and refine my make-up, my dress, my mannerisms, my voice, and my mental attitude, most important! Have been moisturizing my skin, face, leg, arms, my whole body and I mentioned before shaved my body, neck to toe. Even trimmed my eyebrows amd they came out PERFECT!😊. Thanks to studying all the you tube videos out there.
Today have 20 hours with the house to myself from3pm
Okay, in my last blog I was about to close my business (November) and moved my "belongings" home not knowing when I would be able to resume presenting female if not only in private, but I did NOT purge as I had many times in the past. Hey I just turned 64😎, and there were many. Thank goodness😊. Since then, I have been dealing with a rather extreme life changing event, the kind that would cause anyone to reconsider if transitioning is the right course to continue. Well, prior to that I've had the
Okay, throughout my entire life, I have often accumulated various articles and many times, entire wardrobes of woman's clothing, shoes, make-up, wigs, etc. In my own privacy I dressed up, sometimes if only for a short period and other times for extended periods. More often than not, I always had my "stash", which gave me much comfort in the thought that I would someday be able to transition and live my life of a woman without going back. It seems that every time I had a "life changing event",
Our "Inner Circle". A comment about inner circle recently that caused me to ponder further the meaning of the "inner circle" that each of us have. I have heard of this term throughout my life of 64 years, and also pondered it's meaning to me. My inner circle presumably is comprised of my true self, my thoughts, actions, expectations, goals, fears, regrets, my coping mechanisms, accomplishments and failures, those good and bad things in my own psyche, judged only by my own mind. I guard mi
I think names are significant. I don't particularly care for labels, however. But names we like, names we choose, those that "sound" good to us often have much meaning as to where we've been, whom we've met , where we want to go, what appeals to us, and what we would like to be, and says a lot about our own perception of our personality.
One of the first realizations that we are going to transition comes to us when we choose a name. Some of us choose early in life, some later in life
The next several, haha, fifty plus years, were rather routine and uneventful. My female identity surfaced again at college, and I enjoyed sleeping in lingerie. That lasted a while until I graduated, got a job and married and divorced. That was a tough relationship; can honestly say I don't believe that had any thing to do with my female tendency. Put that on hold again until the very end. I think I rationalized that I was born cisgender male and proceeded to work to succeed in my biologicall
Well, knew then I just had to check this out further. During the next couple of years ( 7th and 8th grades) I found myself home alone for a few hours every day after school, and while others my age were home doing school homework I was doing my own "girl work". Always had straight A's in school, never had to study much, but paid close attention to a lot. You might say both school work and girl work came naturally to me. My sister was 16 years old, I spent whatever free time I could dressin