I think you just have to get on with it and not worry about what others might think, or how you appear, just do what you've gotta do, wash your hands, dry them and walk out just the same as if you've just used the ladies. Remember that you don't have to hold a conversation in the"bogs", it's quite normal not to, unless it's someone who you know. This is what I've done whenever I've used the ladies, and it works for me. It's also true of most mundane activities, such as in the supermarket. I feel that if I start thinking about what others think or what I look like, I'd be read. 

Glad everything is going so well for you,

Cheers,

Eve

Hiya Jay. It Is So good that You have got somebody on Your side. Please do Not take any messing from anyone at all. You have done the right thing, getting Your Manager to put the E-Mail's out. Jay, You can be very Proud , of how far that You have come, so far, and You Will continue to do so well. I Am glad that Your Husband is being supportive of You. Hopefully, Your Brother will eventually come round. Jay, have a Good Weekend, Take Care Young Man, and My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo 

Hi Jay,

Good for you! I fully agree with Eve, by the way.  There's nothing odd at all about walking into any restroom and not knowing the layout. I can guarantee few things but this is one: no one will notice your taking in the layout of the facilities.  It is what it is.  One needs to know which and where.  To me the most awkward thing is when, say, the stall(s) is busy.  What to do?  :-)  Hang around and wait?  No, that's kinda creepy.  Probably best to move to a different restroom or wait outside.  

We're all pulling for you and look forward to hearing more about your experiences.

Hugs,

Emma

To expand on my previous comment I have just thought of an analogy, imagine that you are trying to photograph someone who is posing, these sort of photographs rarely come out showing the true way that a person appears in everyday life, they just look unnatural, not quite right. Then think about photographs taken of people who are unaware of being photographed, they look very natural, and different from a posed shot.................so if you are thinking about "your performance" and how you look to to others, it's much the same as posing. I know that you will probably feel under more scrutiny in the "bogs" than in many other places, please ignore that feeling, and never ever give in to it. You just have to get on with what you're doing and ignore others, yes some may be unsure of your gender, but they won't ever be sure if you just get on with whatever you're doing, it can be likened to a poker game, are they going to call you if they aren't sure, and risk of making an absolute arse out themselves............?

Christmas Hugs, (no, don't know if they're any different from normal hugs !)

Eve

Hi Veronica,

He's younger by four years. But he's far more grown up than I am 

Cheers,

Jay