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Moment of clarity

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By CarolineTyler

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You know how sometimes its all becomes clear, your life as it was, where you are now and the future ahead, I think I had one of those moments on Tuesday just gone.

I have been going through a a period of doubt about my job, I know my boss's boss doesn't like me one bit, it's so obvious in the why he talks to me on the conference calls to the US (where he is located). I'm totally sure he would like to see me gone and I've been playing justify my position for the past year and a bit, having any errors I make magnified, and successes downplayed and just generally its making me pretty miserable in a job I have always loved.

Well I took a mental step back Tuesday night and realised that my current position in life is such that I don't need this pressure - economically I will not be any worse off if they manage fire me (no way I'm quitting and giving in) in fact I would actually be better off as I could then write off some pretty major debts.

So that has really made me much happier at work - the release of pressure is amazing and I've actually managed to get more done ironically.

On a negative - I got sir'ed in Byron Burgers at a team lunch today, but I think it was just a mistake rather than on purpose, the rest of my team is male and I had my back to the waiter in question, so I'll let it pass.

Hugs

Caroline xxxx

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    I think it is a raw deal treating you with such intended screwtany , I do believe they are simply looking for that one slip up or the pressure becoming to great that you now longer can work there , I wouldnt give them the saticfaction either , stand your ground do your job and let them play their hand then you like you say will be a little free'er in your monitary cercomstances , I know this is happening to me as well because when you go from more then you can get done to not getting hardly any work you know they are putting the pressure on you . No biggy I could deffinatly use the time off with pay so Fire me you jerks It really isn't going to hurt my feelings one bit (LOL) . It really is funny when The shop has Three gay guys working in it but as soon as someone transitions and is in no way hiding this fact they freak out and try to get rid of them , so funny to me . Oh well such is life it will only get better ...

    Head up ,Smile big , and step with pride knowing your doing your part .

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    Steph

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