Criticism!...How do you respond?
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Yes friends did you know there's different types?? Well there is one type builds up a peson's
self-esteem, and the other destroys it! this not my opinion it is a fact.
There's two ways to look at criticism. The first way is to feel hurt and rejection.
Which makes you say to your self.. O you B=brat you want to tell me how to do this, or how I should act ,or look.
The other way is Wow, this person cares enough to help me to grow!! Yep that right,if i did care for somebody I would not say a word.
However, some people are very sanative to what is said that's why when you criticize a person do it with caution. This way the point your trying to make is not lost, and you don't hurt the other person.
O yes that leads me to make this point If I ignore you Is that better than criticizing you. I think the first point is worse than the second point. I know if I did not love someone I would not say a word.
thats why take the criticizem and embrace it, and it most definntly help you to grow.
Why do I write this because, it took 45 years to understand this point and now I want to share what I have learned.
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