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​I opened Pandora's box (in a mythological sense) a few years back. I can't unsee it, but it did help me a lot in unearthing my real identity which was also the time I discovered that this journey was essential to my survival. My mom got me that necklace in Hawaii! I really like it. I also have one with a purple flower and a shell string, I like it a lot too but this one goes with more of my outfits. My brother has had that necklace for as long as I can remember. He's the musician in the family

Mikah, Love the necklaces you and your brother are wearing. Are they handmade? Did you make them? You are a beautiful lady and your brother is a handsome man. Monica

Monica, it took my mother this long, at 58 she talks to me about sex. In regards to my mother's experience, she was a teenager at the time with another teenager.

Dear Karen, My mother never talked to me about sex, but about some of her experiences in dating. What your mother described might have been "premature ejaculation," often caused by a man having been with prostitutes in the past. The prostitute would rush the man, thus unintentionally teaching him bad sexual habits. Would like to warn the ladies here that men that had sex with prostitutes or were into pornography, especially video or computer pornography, have unrealistic expectations about sex and relationships. Your friend, Monica

Dear Sara, Suspect the Canadian Blood Service confuses transwomen with Gaymales. Bottom line, transwomen ARE women, and there are Gaymales who are in happy, monogamous relationships, and everyone is an INDIVIDUAL, and should be evaluated as such! Your friend, Monica

I was a bit worried when I read the title of this post, but was relieved when I found out you meant Pandora in the bracelet sense, rather than Pandora in the mythological sense! Happy (belated) birthday!