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Hiya Debora, I have sent You an EMail. Sweetheart, I have read Your blog right through. Wow, It Is very powerful. Debora, You can choose Your Friends, but, sadly, You Can Not choose Your Family. Your Friends are the Family You choose for Yourselves. Debora, this is a very true sentiment. Deborah, between Early August 1988, and Early February 1996, I Personally, made 3 Serious Suicide Attempts, because I wanted to "Come-Out" as Transsexual, but due to in acceptance, I was unable to. I Came-Out, on 30th. April, 2015, as Transsexual. That was like having a Massive-Weight, Lifted-Off Both of My Shoulder's ! Deborah, I have the Utmost Respect for You. You survived Your Suicide Attempt, because You are a Good Person, in fact a Terrific Young Lady. Deborah, Merry Christmas, AndA Happy New Year Sweetheart. Take Care, With My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xx

Dear Debora, I read all of your post and want to applaud your bravery for writing. I also want to say how sorry I am to read it and, especially, how your family is treating you now. Thank goodness you survived your suicude attempt. It seems to me that you have come very far in your life and you have some well deserved pride of yourself. Clearly, you are a good person who deserves love and her place in this world. You're carving your place in it, too, all by yourself, which is sad. What will you do for the holidays? Do you have friends to be with? I hope so. This is an especially significant time when we need each other as human beings. As I write here now I keep thinking I should have more to say, advice and help to provide. I don't have much and I don't want to come off sounding like "all you have to do is" something. Depression, anorexia, childhood abuse, and unsupportive family isn't something that can be solved in a message. I wonder, do you see a therapist? It's a challenge to find one that's right for ourselves and it's expensive, but it's invaluable. So, thanks again for writing. Keep doing it. Pound your tears into your keyboard. Maybe we can help. We will try. Warm hugs, Emma

By the way, I'd love joining your TAGS group. It would be such fun to wear a pretty swimsuit and go swimming. And just hang out, too. I had to write this as I noticed that I kept on thinking about it as I saw the title of your post! Merry Christmas, Emma