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HI Bree, Nice post and, I assume, you're feeling better? Hope so. On the "problem" vs. "lifestyle" word choice I'm not a fan of either. I agree "problem" is not accurate. But "lifestyle" implies choice. Like sexuality, ones gender or feelings about their true gender, is not a choice. But maybe you mean that the expression of gender is a choice. I guess I could not argue with that, especially for trans men whom I think we would all agree have lots of choice. But for trans women? Much less, especially in public. I may have minced words here but that's my nature. As far as your sexuality goes, and your experiences, I think we all have histories that we wish we had handled better. Time to give yourself forgiveness. Look forward, not back. We can't undo the past! Yeah, once again, Emma states the obvious!

I'm both sorry and really startled that you got something from me after all these years.

Hope both of you get well soon.

Congrats on moving forward with breast augmentation. One thing about HRT, the longer you are on this your breast for most will expand and will allow better fit for the new breast. I was in rest mode for four days afterwards after a three plus hours for surgery. One of the difficult things is restraining from using your arms e.g. can't raise them very high. For three weeks was in a binder and during that time was instructed to apply a special lotion to my breast. Thought for you, rather than going in with a predetermined cup size listen to the surgeon for their opinion. I asked for B but they rationalized a C cup which afterwards I feel was the correct size. Personally I just didn't feel right to have my breast done before GRS but I think I am in a small group as most get them first or at the same time as GRS. Any ways I am happy for you.