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Hi there Steph No my mom is visiting. I worked in an oncology ward when I was a nurse. Operative word was. I also have cancer in my family, and would prefer the worst part of work to be over before finding out that chemo is the next step. That is the part freaking me out. My luscious locks will be effected and I definitely will be crying once the diagnoses starts. Not my first cancer scare, and the part where death becomes me, isnt the scary part. Made peace with that millennia ago. Okay, here my vanity comes in, even though I don't view myself as super model hot, I don't think I'm unsightly ugly just naturally more to the proportional side of average to beautiful, make that cuteish. The thing that will surprise most people are: 1. I've alwys been the caretaker when someone fell ill 2. Even when I fell ill, no one was supposed or still are suppose to touch me, as I will and can take care of myself 3. I'm not the best person to treat at home, because I'll make myself comfortable and expect worying eyes to just buzz off. 4. If I need help I will give specific instructions just for that instance. So I know people mean good when assisting me, but it irritates me more the you could imagine. Tha​nks for the well wishes, will work it out in time when where and how I'll be immobile. Hugs Michele

Hiya Michele. I Am Sorry My Darling, that You have found a lump, where a lump Did Not ought to be. Because there is Cancer in My Own Family, ( Big-Time ), if I find a lump, it has to be checked out by the Doctor's immediately. Michele, I Am going to make a suggestion. How about measuring the size of the lump, writing it down in a notepad, then, maybe 3 Day's later, re-checking the size, to see if it has altered, but, still making a note, and doing this, until You are able to get it Properly checked-out. Sweetheart, It Is Only Natural, that You are going to be Worried, and Apprehensive. You Would Not bebHuman, and Female to go with It, so You are bound to Worry. Michele Honey, We Know that You are a Very Hard Worker, but, Please get it Checked-Out, WHEN You Can. If You Need to Talk, or Anything Else, You Know Where I Am. I Know You have got Your Mother staying with You as well, and that Can be Stressful, when You are So Busy At Work, and then having the Lump as well. Michele, Good Luck Sweetheart. Take Care Honey, Because I Care !! And My Very Best Wishes Michele, to You, and Your Family. Big Hugs, and Love, Stephanie. xxxxxxxx

Hiya " Sweet " Emma Sweet. Honey, Congratulations on Your Cycle of over 100 Miles. Because of Osteo-Arthritis, I Am no longer able to cycle, or walk for any type of distance. But, when A Friend, such as You Emma, achieves a Great Distance like over 100 Miles, It makes Me feel Very Proud of You. Emma, Well Done. Now, You need to rest a bit. Emma, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Big Hugs, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx

Hi Michele, we are all rooting for you and wishing you well. I'll not advise that you take care of yourself but I am certainly thinking it. Let us know how it all turns out. Best wishes, Emma

Hey Jay, "And I'm not trying to be a 'typical male' - because there is no such thing." I seem to be in a quoting mood today (see my comment to Lisa a moment ago). But anyway, I think you're right on in all of your comments and how you present yourself: you are just yourself, simple as that. I think that's how we'd all like to be, just ourselves, take it or leave it. That takes a bravery that I don't have at least outside of our home, and I commend you. Bravo! Emma

Dear Lisa, "I will deal with it like I always have, with grace, love and kindness." I have no doubt of that, you're terrific, and I'm very happy to hear of your progress. Emma

Thank you all so much!! I will be posting more. It's been a lot to tackle. I knew that July would be extremely stressful and emotionally challenging for me. But I feel so much better and finally free to be me!

Hiya Michele. You Young Lady, are Definitely NOT UGLY. You are a Very Beautiful; Pretty; Young Lady, and You are Definitely Cute ! You are far more Lovely than Me ! Mind You, I Am getting Old !! Michele, I understand Your concern's over Chemotherapy, I have had So Many Friend's, and Relatives who have gone through it. I Did Not Know, that You have gone through Cancer before. Young Lady, You I Know, are very independent, and I Am very similar in that sense. I Am very independent, and used to doing thing's for Myself. I do Not make for being a very patient Patient !! L.O.L. Michele, I Sincerely hope, that You have NOT got cancer. However, You Know, that I Am routeing for You Honey. Michele, having Your Mother visiting, and Not wanting to tell Her - Very Hard ! Michele, Good Luck, Take Care Sweetheart, Big Hugs, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx

Hi Lisa I love the way you tackling the world. Sounds like I can take some hints from you when I need to get some fuel to continue. Stay strong ma'am, your supporters are routing for you. Hugs Michele

Dear Lisa, I also echo Stephanie and Chantel's messages. Your wings are indeed strong and beautiful. You soar, girl! Emma

Hi Lisa, May I reiterate what Steph has said. Well done and best wishes for the future. Sorry to hear your splitting up and my heart is with you. As with Steph. Any time you need to download or talk about stuff feel free. I often need to talk and share stuff so know bottling it up is no good. Big hugs.

Hiya Lisa. Darling Girl, I Am so Pleased to hear Your News. Good on You, Young Lady. Lisa, I Am literally a few day's short of A Year-And-A-Quarter, being MtoF Fully; Full-Time. I Know the Awesome Feeling, that You ARE going through. Sweetheart, it is a truly Wonderful Thing, that You have got the Support at Work as well. Lisa, I Am So Proud of You, Young Lady. Please Know, that I Am here, if You wish to talk, or if You need Any support. Lisa, You said that You and Your Wife, are Not staying together. Well Darling, My Own Marriage is over, and We are Only still under the Same-Roof, ( At The Moment ), because of Our 3 Special-Needs-Children. But, She has been cheating on Me, for nearly 2 Year's, with Other Women; and Other Men !! Lisa, a lot of Marriages end due to Transitioning, but Lisa, be like Me, Keep Smiling, Keep Thinking Positive, and just think Honey, You WILL BE the Beautiful Butterfly on The Outside, that You Already ARE, on The Inside. Lisa, Good Luck Sweetheart, Take Care, And My Very Best Wishes, Big Hug's and Cuddle's, Love Stephanie. xxxx