I agree that labels, in and of themselves, are not the enemy, and that the way they may be used is. I use labels to sort out my thoughts, ideas, and concepts. For me the "transgender" label helps because its definition includes that my having a inner gender that is different than my birth sex is innate. I do wrestle with sub-labels within the transgender umbrella. For example I've wondered if I should label myself bigender since, like bisexual people, I go back and forth. For now I'm sticking with transgender especially for cisgender people who for the most part do not even have a good grasp of that label.