Hi Chrissy, I'm a little out of my element as a fashion consultant, but how would some dressy pants--loose and flowing-- with a blouse and a little fashion jewelry for one. For the second, why not do a ball gown? It doesn't have to be expensive. You could even look at a thrift shop. Might just look and feel good on you. You don't know until you try. I take it you don't have a lot of time to put things together. Not sure I was much help. I wish you the best and hope you have fun.