Dear Dawn, Just wanted to comment that at age 60, sales staff and wait staff mostly call me "ma'am" but occasionally call me "miss." Started being called "ma'am" in my early 20's. As I got older, "ma'am" gradually predominates. Am OK with either one, as long as it is spoken respectfully. Your athletic bra reminds me of the "jog bras" I wore when they first came out when I was in college. You asked if I saw your post. Read TGGuide a couple of times a week. As far as I know, I've read every one of your posts. Am sorry if I was late or missed reading one of your posts. Please let me know which you think I may have missed. Your friend, Monica