Cyrsti

Now if we all could use this gift to it's fullest (or be allowed to) how special life could be!

Thanks girls! I love the tips!

Cyrsti

Stephanie,

What a great story. Thanks for sharing!

We lived a a rural area so the nearest house was a wooded lot away so being discovered was not so pressing.

In the immediate area around us there was only one girl. All boys. I often wonder if some of my total fascination with the female gender is from early deprivation! LOL

Indeed. My experience in female communication (verbal and non) have done wonders I have opened my senses to hearing and reacting on a totally different level with both genders. Could be a great communication tool! If someone had the guts to write it.

I'm sure I'm one of ten million who thought of it.

Thanks John, I have been VERY lucky to have learned the hard way about being in the wrong places at the wrong times. ALMOST

Thank God, I have not been hurt. I'm knocking on my head (wood) because it could have happened. In fact I'm adding "Mace" to the contents of my purse.

In regards to my "friend" he was a learning experience that all girls experience. So I learned. I do rely heavily on my bartender friends in those circumstances.

On the other hand, I used to be one of those who would put on her profile "not interested in men". That was until I met a guy one night I desperately wish I had not rejected so quickly. I have the story written down and I will try to get it on my blog posts as it is quite lengthy.

The moral to the story was he rode a classic Triumph and I would have left with him. But I didn't. He knew I was TG.

I found you can't stereotype again a couple days ago.

Tuesday night this week was completely different in my usual sports bar because I spent almost the whole evening conversing with guys.

One I've known for almost a year from there and the second was introduced to me by the first. The third is just a casual exchange of chat or sports. They all know of me.

I never take any conversation farther than I believe they want it to go and approach them as a woman. NEVER any sexual statements. My conversation is all about them. What do they do, how do they do it and how about their family.

The bottom line is (I guess) they know I'm not a girl, but I kind of look like one and maybe act like one a little better. It obviously doesn't bother them to be seen with me in a crowded bar so I must be doing something right.

Wow! How did I get so wordy with all of this? Sorry! Thanks again for your concern!

Cyrsti

A great post! Thanks. Leads credence to not being a victim! You miss so much!

Good stuff!

You are exactly right...don't assume anything to quickly!

Listening is an art form...working on it. What did you say? lol

cyrsti

Amie

The mother connection with kids like us is a great avenue to explore. I've done a small post about it on another site. I'll bring it over for your comments. Thanks so much.

Thank YOU Amie. Being dressed up and feeling sexy is all part of the fun. Right?

You look great and I'm sure others will see you as you wish them to. Just takes "growing into it" None of us had the advantage of years of "practice"! What's the saying "life's a journey, not a destination?" Or something like that!

Cyrsti

Hi!

I think the most powerful communication I've learned is the total non verbal eye contact that women use.

I have not experienced the looking at the man glance but have many times been included in the "that guy's an idiot" look.

More importantly my bartender friends are very protective of me (thank god) and I get the "are you OK? look.

Verbally some will tell me when I use a "male" descriptor or sentence.

Fascinating!

Thanks Admin!