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Jessicatoyou

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  1. My wife just purchased 4 Hanes Get Cozy Pullover ComfortFlex Fit® Wirefree Bra's for me and I love them - great fit and support.  (Pink, Purple, Teal and Nude colors) Was going to use them as sleep bras but I am thinking they will also be great everyday bras. I highly recommend them to everyone.  Photo below.

    Also looking for a recommendation - I could be doing a professional makeover soon - possible Christmas Gift.  Does anyone know of a best place local to the mid-west; KY, OH, IN?  My therapist said that this might be something for me to do and I am liking the idea.  Maybe a whole weekend in a new location all woman-ed up?  (Shopping, restaurant, play or movie)  This would not be a boy mode or unisex mode thing - but a fully feminine experience for me. :)  Dawn

     

     

     

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    1. Jessicatoyou

      Jessicatoyou

      I have 2 myself; very comfortable and look good!  Have a wonderful time on your girl's out weekend!!

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  2. Came out as trans to my wife 4 years ago. She's always known about the dressing up, but not the depth of why. She's been super supportive and we are closer than ever in our relationship. Finally saw a therapist this year and confirmed my gender dysphoria. I've always known, but the diagnosis makes it official. No hormones yet, but strongly considering. Concerned about transitioning in my 50s and losing my job and friends.

    1. Jessicatoyou

      Jessicatoyou

      Hi Dani. And welcome to the TG Community.  Take your time to navigate the site and get to become familiar with the activity, posts, and blogs of some of the members and hopefully you'll be comfortable enough to start some of your own.  You'll find the members here very friendly, knowledgeable and supportive here.

      I transitioned at 64, and was also very concerned about losing the few relationships I had, and of course very concerned about working.  I don't know what kind of employment field you are in, or what geographic area you are in, but I've found that many of my fears were only that, just fears.  

      I look forward to perhaps getting to know more about you and please don't hesitate to ask questions.

      Jessica 😊

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  3. Another great day getting my hair styled, brows waxed and a pedicure.  I wore my new American Eagle Hot Pants and a matching top that showed off my comfortable white nylon bra underneath. I had a brown hair band, rose quartz earrings and was wearing one of my favorite perfumes. My stylist said she really like making my hair, brows and toes "beautiful."  Then she had to mention she had been doing weights and showing off her arms to me.  Of course we compare arms and mine now look a lot smaller than hers.  And I was thinking mine really look feminine.  After I was done at the stylist I left, looking almost totally beautiful, and I went to a local farmers market and just blended in - I really think no one even possibly thought I was not female the whole time I was there. A wonderful transgender feminine experience. :)

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    1. Jessicatoyou

      Jessicatoyou

      Not almost, but totally Beautiful.  Your outfits are great, but your smile is my favorite!

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  4. Hi all, my name is Shanice and I am looking for new friends and some advice about transitioning. Can anyone please help me?

     

     

    1. Jessicatoyou

      Jessicatoyou

      Hi Shanice,

      Welcome to TG Guide.  I've been a member almost a year now and,  after getting serious with my transition back then , have learned just about everything I wanted and needed to know.  Of course while all of our situations are different and unique, I found that there are also many things that we all had in common. I would suggest you take the time to begin by exploring some of the other member's profiles and blogs and some of the forum topics that most interest you.  The resources for information are plentiful.  Perhaps you'll become comfortable enough to join some of the discussions and ask some specific questions about others' experiences, and perhaps even start your own blogs. For sure you'll find the community here very knowledgeable and accepting and supportive. 

      Jessica 

  5. Spent an entire week in Florida presenting myself in a very simple fashion as a woman. A life time of experiences this trip. So much to describe. The attached photo is me in Universal Studios. I did not enhance my natural body for this trip, just wore all women's sportswear top to bottom. My breasts in my sports bra were noticeable but I was not trying to bring too much attention to them. I remember when I entered the park when the photo was taken one of the attendants said "I really like your Turquois Outfit," one of her favorite looks. I have over 20 great photos to share along with my neat story. So more soon. :)

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    1. Jessicatoyou

      Jessicatoyou

      Dawn, you look great!  Keep having fun!😊

  6. 47,679 profile views my goodness that's a bunch of snooping.

    1. Jessicatoyou

      Jessicatoyou

      That's what I said and my time can't be recovered, all I have left is what's ahead.

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  7. 47,679 profile views my goodness that's a bunch of snooping.

    1. Jessicatoyou

      Jessicatoyou

      Hope you get to trade in that truck for a horse and carriage soon.

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  8. 47,679 profile views my goodness that's a bunch of snooping.

    1. Jessicatoyou

      Jessicatoyou

      Just started to go everywhere recently and really enjoying it, too

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  9. 47,679 profile views my goodness that's a bunch of snooping.

    1. Jessicatoyou

      Jessicatoyou

      Yep, if you don't snoop and learn, you don't go anywhere😃

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  10. 47,679 profile views my goodness that's a bunch of snooping.

  11. Was described as a "beautiful ... lady" last week by a waitress at a restaurant I was at in Florida.  I did not even have any makeup on.  Here is a recent photo of me with my own hair, near the time of this neat encounter.

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  12. I’m a girl. I just haven’t found her body yet. 

    1. Jessicatoyou

      Jessicatoyou

      Welcome.  I'm new here, too, but have always known where I belonged. Just took me a long time for my body to catch up with my head, too, and still have a way to go.  Have met some great people here, I hope you do too.  I've figured out quickly I've never been alone and have learned a lot from others here.  Take your time, navigate the site, and feel free to comment.  You won't be judged and I'm sure you will contribute much.  Thanks for joining.👍

      Jessica

       

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  13. Omg! It’s been forever! Call me 7015706824

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