They were not the tears of pain, it was because of a simple statement my fiancé said last night in bed.
We were talking about friends, their issues (marriage/money etc.) and got on to insecurities.
Of course being a trans-woman I could write a book with the insecurities I have about 'passing', we all see the bits we don't like in the mirror.
She simply turned to me and said, "Darling, I've NEVER slept with a man" and that brought tears to my eyes.