Just a hug.  I have a related, similar issue with my dad and stepmother, and I hope you family regains their sanity soon.   The things with family is, it's a lottery of random personalities tied together by shared history.  And I have lots of hugs if you need them.

Yeah thanks, my sister is a trooper she is standing up for me   just off the phone with her ,  says my dad is willing to talk  still in the air on mom yet

Hiya Nicky. Darling Girl, A saying for You. You Can Choose Your Friend's, But Sadly, You Cannot Choose Your Family. Your Friend's - They Are The Family, That You Choose For Yourself. Nicky, I have NOT had any contact, with My Parent's, for almost 19 Year's. Nicky, Briannah is so right, in what She says. Nicky, You can be Very Proud of being the Beautiful; Pretty; Young Lady that You are. Nicky, The People Who Matter, Care ! The People Who Don't Care, Don't Matter ! If Your Family Won't accept You, for You, then They are the One's Who will lose out, on watching You Young Lady, bloom as the Beautiful; Pretty; Rose, that You are ! Nicky, I Am Lucky, that I have the support of My Best Mate, and another Good Mate, as well. Nicky, You Know that You have the Support, of All of Us here at TGGuide. I have been MtoF Transitioning; and Fully; Full-Time; Living; for 16 Month's now. Nicky, You have Blossomed in that time. Nicky, I Am here for You Young Lady. Nicky, Take Care, Big Hugs and Cuddles, And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx 

Hi Nicky,

I totally agree with Steph and Brianna. Best wishes. X

Heya Nicky.

Hope the processing went well after the coming out.  Stay strong, the loving ones whom views you as important to them will stick around.

Hugs

Michele

Well in my home  state now   will be seeing parents and they want to see me and talk , no yelling or any thing on the phone call last night 

Update  things went very good no issues yet , but they say this will  take time as they are willing to accept it , even went out for dinner together and talked , i will give them props for trying  and being nice about about everything  .

Hi Nicky,

That's wonderful that things are going well, and that your parents are trying to be accepting.  It's always nice when someone surprises us (in a good way) with their reaction.  Sending you my wishes that everything continues to go well!

Telling my parents is still on my list of things to do.  They're not bible thumpers, but my dad is very much a bigot too.  So I'm not really expecting it to go well, but maybe my parents will surprise me too!