Dear Jennifer,

If you met your ex from 20 years ago today, you would be very different people. It would be highly unlikely you would be friends, much less lovers.

Her cheating on you shows there is much to be desired about her character.

Be grateful that you have a woman who loves you for you!

Your friend,

Monica

I don't want her. That's not the issue. The issue is her being in my head. I want to be free of her again, but she just stays in my head like gum in my hair. But peanut butter ain't gonna fix this one.

Dear Jennifer,

Sometimes suddenly passing away is marked by family/friends/lovers (ex's included) dreaming and thinking about them.

Her spirit may be trying to contact you to say they are sorry for hurting you, even if it's long ago. They may have harmed many people so they might be contacting each to apologize.

My take, anyways.

Try to forgive them and tell them to go towards the light.

Yours in Sisterhood,

Monica

The freaky thing is that she lives with her parents who only live about 2 miles from me. We're practically in the same neighborhood. I know this because I drive by their house all the time when I have to go out, and see her a lot, thought she thankfully doesn't seem to notice me. Taking that route is unavoidable unless I want to add extra miles. And with the price of gas, I can't afford that.

Still I just want to know why I'm thinking about her so much, and how to get her out of my head.

Jennifer, whatever you do, don't make contact!

5 hours ago, MonicaPz said:

Jennifer, whatever you do, don't make contact!

I didn't plan on it. From what I hear, she's pretty much gone insane in the last few years. I also heard she has 3 kids and no clue who the father is. So apparently she sleeps around quite a bit. That's drama that I neither need nor want in my life. I have my own baggage to deal with, I don't want to be a bellhop for people I don't give half a rat's *** about.