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Female to Male (FtM) Transsexual Discussion

Topics of interest to those with gender identity dysphoria and/or desire to live and be accepted as men whether pre-op, post-op or non-op, and whether "out" or not. *MUST BE A REGISTERED MEMBER TO OPEN ANY POSTS IN THIS DISCUSSION THREAD*

  1. Bristol Resident Shares Story of Transgender Struggles on NPR Patch.com By Sara Bagwell Jaye Watts, a Bristol resident who identifies himself as a queer-identified transgendered man, reached out to Patch last week to share his news. "I want Bristol and Warren folks to know that people like me exist and are a part of their...

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  2. I've heard of many guys who lived for a while as lesbians before either coming to terms with being, or discovering they were actually TS. From pictures of guys I've chatted with, and pix of people like Chaz Bono, it seems that all these guys dressed like any other male. Many had very male looking hair cuts. All this despite identifying as lesbians at the time. While watching a video posted by Plague in the thread " it suddenly hit me - why do lesbian women like females that dress and act like men, yet they don't want anything to do with men. And if their male-acting "girlfriends" end up actually being TS and decide to transition...the lesbian g/f's drop them like…

  3. Started by Lori,

    Transgender speaker talks about life story The Daily Titan By Matt Atkinson Transgender issues and lifestyle were the main topics at a lecture hosted by Alpha Kappa Delta International Sociology Honor Society Tuesday morning, as a part of their ongoing “Sociology Week” series. “Transgender Issues in Society”

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  4. Started by Lori,

    Local Transgender Speaks Out NTV Brody Runge, a 24-year-old from Kearney, is a transgender male whose story has been featured on TLC, Discovery and the Oprah Winfrey Network. He even had a brief appearance on "American Idol."Transgender is defined as a person who identifies with a...

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  5. Transgender speaker sheds light on gender identity The Doane Line In December 2004, however, Sallans realized his inside didn't match his outside and underwent transgender surgery. Now a full-time professional speaker, mentor, diversity trainer and consultant, Sallans will speak at 11 am in the Whitcomb Lee...

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  6. Started by Luse,

    First off I Must say that being trans for ME was Not about a sex change or being manly. I do not drink beer, watch sports, or drive a truck. I don't even drive. When I was told by the gender "specialist" that in order to get on my testosterone I would need to engage in a MAN ONLY activity in public in my chosen gender role. So I went to a Gay Bar and hit on cute boys! I stole someones boyfriend and snogged em in the stairwell! Then I started hanging out with this super sexy drag queen and we became bffls! I did her hair and makeup, and outfits so long that I wanted to join in! No one knew I was born female and they were drag queens! Eventually I came out to …

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  7. I need to know something, can I legit say that I have more naturally born kids than any other trans guy? 0-2- thought I was a boy 2-7 only had to wear dresses when forced 7-10 mom says its time to be a lady 10-12 stealing dads clothes and running away 12-14 no friends lives in the country 14-16 highschool hung out with all guys and fit in 16-18 seriously had a second identity that was male- doing roids 18- came out was shoved back in by parents 19- got pregnant but parents against queers said I cant raise her 20- gave my first born to a gay couple- gay parents rock. 22- gave being a girl one more try in europe 23- left my home town had 2 more kids and raised…

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  8. NPR -- (With Audio) This spring, Les and Scott GrantSmith will mark their 25th wedding anniversary. The couple raised two daughters along the way. But 15 years ago, they hit a crisis that nearly shattered their family. Les was keeping a secret, and that became a problem. But they solved it as a family, in a way that kept them together and happy... Read the Article (Listen to the Audio): A Mom Becomes A Man, And A Family Sticks Together This is an awesome story! ~ Lori

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  9. For transgender people, a life without binary norms San Francisco Chronicle (blog) (Video) Though Pierson is transitioning by taking hormones, he's not sure about the procedure that many female-to-male transgendered people undertake: top surgery. “If I could not have top surgery and be on a beach topless without feeling seen and it being a...

  10. Transgender in a male-or-female world – CNN Photos Chicago, a struggling New York musician in his mid-30s, was born female but now embraces the trans label. Since he was a teenager, he has been searching ...

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  11. Transgender (Mis)Education Huffington Post (blog) The other tabs on my browser pointed to transgender documentaries and articles about trans* folks in the news. I was looking for guidance, which is rare for someone as stubborn and strong-willed as me. I was confused and tormented by my confusion.

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  12. Started by ohmerrick,

    As I've not been around the board for more than a couple days, I don't know how appropriate this seems but I suppose the main reason for reaching out is that I'm kind of looking for a "big brother" of sorts, someone who's started transitioning and who can potentially take me under their hypothetical wing. I've only come out to myself this last week or so, as well as to my girlfriend and one other person, but that's it. I feel a little stranded and I feel like I need someone who knows what I'm going through and dealing with, among other things. So yeah .. any guys willing to take a little fellow like me under their wing?

  13. How am I expected to stay calm when my emotions are raging like its no ones business when someone who i liked called me a "Gender challenged he she".... I was on the phone with jasmine when my ex-boyfriend called me and said "So i heard you were like gender challenged or whatever" I said nothing. Then he said "I dont want to talk to you anymore if this is what you choose." I said to him "Well you werent (effing) talking to me in the first place, i kind of stopped after you asked me for my best friends number and then cursed me out later. who the (eff) do you think you are?" Im like beyond the point where i might just flip. Im tired of my parents mocking me, Im tired o…

  14. Started by PlagueBubonic,

    Buck Angel is a FtM bodybuilder. This dude rocks!!! Buck Angel Bodybuilding

  15. I know I want to present as male soon, but should i get it checked out by a doctor or something if my bodies producing way more testosterone then my sex should be? I'm not fully ready to transition and my fathers realized that things have changed a lot in the last few months with me that would be normally a side effect of going on T like: Increased body hair Deeper voice (idk if this is a side effect) but i rage a lot. Ive become a little bit more muscular. Quite honestly, im not ready for my body to change like this, not this fast anyway.... What the heck should I do?

  16. Started by freshstreams,

    Im being reason right now, Im hanging out with this girl I've liked since I was in seventh grade, And we've been friends since like.... First grade. I love her.... Idk. wanted to say that somewhere.

  17. Started by Lori,

    One Year Post Op (FtM Top Surgery) http://youtu.be/db-v8FKOwsw

  18. Started by freshstreams,

    So. I Came out to my whole family yesterday, But the result was surprisingly painful. Pretty much. for the last 17 years i've been a ministers daughter. Four older brothers, a step mother who's into gender roles.... You know every 17's year olds life dream to live in a religious jungle. So, I sat everyone down and spoke. Told them how every third Monday night I go to church... Well a church.... I go to a support group... they've been driving me to transgender support groups.... They're response was pretty sickening. My dad asked me what I was doing at those in the first place. It's bad enough that I was a lesbian. My step mother walked away. My biological brother …

  19. Started by freshstreams,

    So, I caught myself staring intensilly... at this guy Xavier in my Criminology class. I should have been paying attention to "Catch me if you can" But, I was admiring his body. He's tall. And Handsome. And I wished I were him.... Is this normal? To stare with admoration at a body that you just wish you had? I do that a lot. I don't know if I should have let my best friend record me saying that in the bathroom though... They may put that on tumblr. I'm rambling... Anyway. I have the buggest crush on his body, He doesnt have much of a personality but I feel like I just want his body. Normal? Yes? No? I'm so confuseddd!!

  20. So I'm just starting to apply for colleges.... But when i move out for school I want to start Transitioning... So.... on my applications when it says sex/gender, do I put female or male? I'd feel extremely comfortable if I could put male but it's not what my teachers, transcript birth certificate or so on say. What about when I apply for housing? If the school offers co-ed housing I should just go with that right? How do I explain myself to others? I mean, in my school ( or on my bus rather) everyone calls me a tranny and I feel like it's extremely rude to do that.... What do I say? Thanks, Vick.

  21. "Stephen Ira Beatty (born Kathlyn), the eldest child of Warren Beatty and Annette Bening, is also an F-to-M man, and he has a big problem with Bono acting like a spokesperson for the trans community"... Stephen says, "Chaz is a misogynist. He is a trans man who seems to believe that his female-assignedness and his female socialization makes him immune from being a misogynist, and he is manifestly wrong." Read More http://www.ivillage....nist/1-a-403881

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  22. Started by Alex,

    On 11/8/2011 I officially had my name changed from my birth name to Alexander along with a totally different middle and lastname. I cant believe how simple and easy that was. I didnt even have a real reason prepared. When the judge asked, I just stated that I didnt like the name i had, and he granted my request. Thats so awesome.

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  23. Started by PINKspanishGATA,

    Hello, I'm new here and I'd like to share experiences to people with female to male. I'm just the other way around (male to female disorder) but I think it's more interesting to find out why people would have those things I liked to remove. For instance: beard growth and why it isn't an option to live as a wife? If I was offline here, you can reach me in the instant messengers (view profile). Best wishes from Germany ;-)

  24. Started by Julien,

    So on Wednesday (28th 2011) I've got my first appointment with the hospital about my gender identity/problem/dysphoria (all these words sound wrong >.<) It's not my usual hospital so my brother-in-law has to drive me there I'm all anxious because i don't know the layout and stuff. Any tips on whats going to happen? What should i say? What are they going to say? Should i dress formal or informal? Will they run tests or just ask questions? Any advice is good advice, i asked this on a diffrent forum but didn't get much a response Thanks Julian

  25. Started by Dee,

    How can I get testosterone without a prescription This was the Only Question that pop into my mind at that time! Thurday wasnt the best day for me eva! Woke up early, after a very busy night...My GF who is travelling to Poland with her Family has been missing me.. Horraaaaay!!!! thats why We were on Skype till late hour of the night.... right now.....My Doctor just txt me back with the Community board's Result... Result was One Word: He let me down....! When it came to choosing between (his Career and His Patient)He chose (job security) Over his patient and refused to approve my Needs to get testosterone treatment....Damn! I Cant Do it without a prescription! …

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