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Good topic Eve. The best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry when one leads a double life no matter how careful we are, how smart we are a slight bump in the road can reveal the other side of us. I had to be very creative while married for 18 years then new challenges when dating for five years, it gets tiring and crazy as we are not only managing clothes but when done right mannerism plays into the equation too. It would be very interesting to hear from others how they handle this where if they are married that really is a challenge more so that single.

What a lovely blog entry, and if you don't think that you're passable as a woman what do you think you are passable as? I can only see female, and would never guess that you're trans, so stop worrying ! And remember it takes one to see one ! Cheers, Eve

That's Brilliant Monica, I think you need to add an extra vote button called Love this............. Cheers, Eve

Dear Monica, Thank you for such a lovely and thoughtful post. Isn't it wonderful? You are too. Emma

Monica, thanks for the words of wisdom. In regards to meeting people in public, in my past life I would not worry at all beings how I am trained but then even so would take counter measures to ensure I could not be traced back to my residence. Since transitioning have met a few people but nothing went so far as sex as I am the type who will not have sex with someone unless I have genuine feelings, not the type that come from below the belt. So with that said, yes, a relationship comes first. Eve, we have men here to that want to explore and nothing more, have encountered them in the past and avoid them at all cost.

Hmmmm, that's interesting and what develops might be more interesting. I find it strange that I have exactly the same thougts about women as you Karen, and the thought of me having sex with a man repulses me, but paradoxically, I sometimes fantasize about being made love to with a penis. I can only explain so far, and that it's not the reproductive organ that bothers me it's the rest of the flesh and persona around it! I think that Male persona's are what really bother me. It's all rather hypothetical anyway seeing as I'm married, yes Monica, albeit rather like Bill & Hillary, perhaps slightly more to true love but not romantic love, anymore lestways. I also worry about "Tranny Chasers" as they are called over here, males who want to experience something different, often wanting pre-op trans girls after seeing the porn sites, with the sole reason so that they can fulfil their fantasies. "Primeval and void of the notion of love" I think lots of men would fit that description, but not all. I just couldn't do it with a man, I think that they're nearly all ugly, such a shame God gave them all the penises................... Hugs, Eve

Hello Wpwyle and welcome to the forums. Monica is such a wonderful person and resource to all of us and would highly suggest taking her advice.

What a thoughtful young man . . . wish he lived near me!