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  1. It's so nice to hear of positive occurrences, and even nicer to hear that they are not limited to one place or country, it seems to me to be most of the English speaking world along with northern Europe, I'm not sure about Southern Europe. How public attitudes have changed over the last couple of years, I feel very lucky to have transitioned when I did. I can only conclude that the showing of many documentaries about the subject, most recently showing famous people going through transtition, who previously were extremely male, and heterosexual as far as could be deduced, such as Kellie Maloney and Caitlin Jenner has really alerted the public to examine their attitudes toward transgender, dispelling the myths that we're all gay, weak and former sissy boys. Quite the contrary with ex-army captains having been previously televised, and now we have a serving army captain and an RAF helicopter pilot who are transgendered, I'm so grateful to all these individuals for having had the courage to stand up and do what they have done. Cheers, Eve
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  2. Hiya Roxanne. Good on You Sweetheart. I Am in the UK, and Live approximately 51 Miles, North-West of London. Almost 2 Week's Ago, I went on the Train to London, ( On My Own ), and having been Fully, Full-Time, Female-Dressed, and Living, since 1st. May, 2015, I was Dressed Quite Nicely, including Wearing My Favourite Long Black Skirt. I was Wolf-Whistled, by a Builder, working on a shop in Central London, ( Which was the Very First Time That Has Happened ), L.O.L. !! I was well-chuffed ! I Am Quite Happy out in Public anyway, as I have been going out, up to the Local Town, most Day's, since I Came-Out as Transsexual. But, I Am Happy, and A lot more confident than I was the first time, although I was only slightly nervous the first time. Roxanne, Your Confidence will Grow, More and More, Each time You Go Out. Enjoy It. I Do ! Getting on Buses, or Trains, or even Taxi's,, I Am Happy Doing, and You will too ! Roxanne, as long as We are true to ourselves, We will Be Happy ! Take Care Roxanne,, and Very Best Wishes, Stephanie.
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  3. Monica, no help needed here and no cry for help Never been abused or gang raped and no denials what-so-ever. I figured someone might think this but has no truth. Lastly, this will never happen again.
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  4. Dear Roxanne, Steph and Eve, Absolutely LOVE ice cream and chocolate. Never heard of different kinds of chocolate toppings! Am so glad you ladies are getting out and about. Would love to spend time with all three of you! Your friend, Monica
    2 points
  5. Dear Karen, Applaud your courage on sharing such a personal story. Here's my take on it, as a cisgender female who is also a Lesbian. Please keep in mind I am 57 years old, (born January 19, 1958) and that my mother was 42 and my father 41 when I was born (your point of view is not only determined by how old you are, but also how old your parents were when you were born). Also, my parents had conservative European backgrounds. In light that one out of four boys and one out of four girls were molested by age 18, this looks like a re-enactment of a gang rape situation. Also promiscuity is an adult symptom of an adult survivor of child molestation. These issues often do not show up until adulthood. Please keep in mind I am not trained psychotherapist or counselor, and because of this, I strongly recommend you seek professional help to sort all this out. See this as a cry out for help. Please do not put yourself into further danger. Your friend, Monica
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  6. Doesnt matter if I respond or not, we've blocked eachother lol like I said, I have no contact with my family. And my friend defriended and blocked her as well so that whatever we share between eachother does not get viewed by my bio-family. I'm over them. I dont need people like that in my life. The people I need are supportive and loving, and that's what I have. I dont need blood ties to appreciate my new family.
    2 points
  7. And I truly wonder about myself and the future, will I be able to resist such feelings and make do with a toy? I do worry about that, and how it might affect my wonderful wife (now termed as partner), I've mentioned before the conundrum that is going through my brain, I think as a comment in one of your earlier postings Karen, I often fantasise about penises but I don't think that I could cope (without throwing up) with the useless flesh around the penis called man, thowing up? yes it'd make me sick I'm sure. But will this change after GRS? There have been so many changes already that I can't be sure what the future holds for me......................... One things for sure though as Steph has said you're only human, (even if you're a 007 clone! LoL - no!, more like a bond girl now with your weapons stashed about you!) and I'd hate to think that you're going to continue to beat yourself up over this episode. You know what I'd probably have done the same anyway and risked all, I'm so impulsive and I will sieze the moment.................. God (if you're a believer) bless you Eve x
    2 points
  8. Hiya Warren. I think You have done exactly the right thing Young Man. As hard as it might sound, I don't think that blood is always thicker than water, when it comes to Families. Warren, I don't know if You saw what I put, on Saturday, about My Own Family, but, most of them, are just Not worth knowing, Full-Stop ! Warren, You, ARE Among Friends here, and We won't Judge You. I Am a Pre-Op. MtoF Transsexual Myself, so Who would I be, to Judge other People ? Warren, if ever You Want a Chat, I Am About on here, a lot of the time. Monica is about a lot as well, so there will always be someone Who cares about You ! By the Way Warren, I did like the Blue Hair ! I Am 53, and My Hair, is still Naturally Dark Brown. But, I Will Grow Old "Disgracefully" ! L.O.L. !!!! Warren, Take Care Young Man. Speak Soon. With Very Best Wishes, Stephie. xoxo
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  9. Hiya Monica. With Sign's Like Those - Family, What Family ? Monica Sweetheart, You are A Lovely, Kind-Hearted Lass. They Do NOT Deserve You, Anyway ! You Know that You are amongst Friend's Here. I Would Be Proud to have You as a Sister ! You Take Care Monica. With Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xx
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  10. Hiya Karen. Sweetheart, You are Only Human. It Is just a Pity, You had to go through All the Nonsense, with The two idiot's. To call them Pigs is insulting Pigs ! L.O.L. It just goes to show, that You most certainly are Female. It would be really nice, if You found Someone, You could really fall in Love with, Someone Who You Could Enjoy making Love with. I Hope that I Haven't Offended or Upset You with The Comment, but I would Not like You to get into a Bad Place ! Karen, I have So Much Respect for You, and I Really do wish Only Good Things For You. Take Care Love. Best Wishes, Stephanie. xoxo
    1 point
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