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Good days are things we can hold onto and hug, I hope you collect them in a great big pile the wrap yourself in!

Hi Karen, this is an interesting topic. Maybelle (M) and I are still together and against all the odds she is not only supportive, but also states that I need to get my GRS surgery done soon, I feel that I'm very - no - extremely lucky to have such a wonderful marriage. I also personally know of another girl who has just had her surgery completed, and is still married. OK, HRT causes physical change, thinking differently, softer more forgiving and easygoing personalities (in many cases), but our inner values are unchanged, perhaps albeit displayed slightly differently. We shouldn't confuse love with lust and sexuality they're separate issues...............Sexuality? yes, that can change for some, formerly heterosexual males do not always become trans lesbians, many seem to become bisexual, but I don't know of many who change completely to heterosexual transwomen. Males that were formally gay however, now are happy to be hetero transwomen. What of cis women? well they're curious creatures, whom I now understand a whole lot better since 4 years of gradual transition and HRT, and realise that they're all different, I'm looking forward to Valentines Day with my M...................and spending the remainder of my life with her. Cheers, Eve

Verbal communication beats out mental thoughts hands down as what may sound good in the brain without speech may not translate well into the spoken word. Best of luck today.

Thanks for the reply, i happy for those were spouses support them but have not heard anyone here who had surgery and can attest to their spouse staying with them. Statistics show that keeping the male genitals keeps many marriages together but afterwards many eventually leave.

there is something in a name... something powerful in its sound and relation to identity, so it must feel so good, validating, and accepting to hear others call you luna, which is much more your true name than anyone else gave or could give you.

Hiya Briannah And Nikki. You ARE BOTH Very Brave Individually, And As Husband And Wife. My Thought's are with YOU BOTH, as I should imagine that Today is Not going to be easy for Either of You, or for Your Mutual Friend either. Briannah And Nikki, You are obviously Very Loving, and Very Caring towards Each Other, and that My Darling's, is Absolutely Fantastic. If Nikki, You can Open-Up to Your Mutual Friend, and They to You, I think it WILL Do ALL of You some Good. Please Do NOT be afraid to shed some tear's either. ( I have ALWAYS Been an emotional Person, even as a Youngster. ) . Briannah and Nikki, You are Both, already, held in Very High Esteem, right here on TGGuide. We are so lucky, to have a Couple, who Are so Open, and Honest, and Loving, here with Us on TGGuide. I Know that I have Not been able to comment on All Your Post's on here, but, I can assure You Both, that I have read them All, with interest and it is great, that You can Both express Yourselves on here openly. Briannah And Nikki, this TGirl has nothing but the Utmost Love and Respect, for You as individual's, and as a Couple. Briannah And Nikki, Good Luck, Good Health, Take Care, And My Love, And My Very Best Wishes, Stephanie. xxxx

My thoughts are with you both today.

Huge hugs, and there is NOTHING blah about overcoming an issue like that, that takes incredible strength and courage to overcome. He absolutely should be proud, and I'm proud to be able to cheer both of you onward!

Hey Alex, Wonderful post, fantastic news. Ren's cutting has always worried me. I have never done it but I think I know why he did. Ren is rightfully coming into his own and growing stronger every day. All of us have his six o'clock covered. Please send my regards to Ren. Like you, he totally rocks. Warm hugs, Emma

Hi Luna, Good to hear you had a nice time. It feels good to receive affirmations from friends and new friends, doesn't it? I looked for your new photo but didn't find it. Did you forget to do it? Anyway I'm happy for you. Have a nice weekend! Hugs, Emma

You are incredibly sweet, and I have to agree, you really bring the most out of me at any given moment and I love you for it.

There are no substitutes for a smooth face like electrolysis for the face. Been there, tried a bunch then did electrolysis 15 years ago and so happy since then.

I went to the zoo Friday with Nikki, and he literally had to cover my eyes and walk me to the baby galapaggos tortoises so I couldnt' see the python on one side or the anaconda on the other. I have no idea when our zoo got an anaconda, but there might have been a freakout. *blush* Thank goodness Nikki takes care of me. LOL