Dear Lori and Briannah, What broke my heart is that she did not want to take her medication was because she liked the hypomania and mania, not because of painful side effects. Now she is having an affair with my next door neighbor, in an effort to make me jealous, hoping I would be crawling on my hands and knees, begging her to take me back. Luckily I have wonderful friends, both face to face and here on TGGuide, who give me support in not returning. The problems would just be waiting to destroy the relationship again. Yes, I have learned something from every relationship I have been in, but as I get older, it gets tiring! Gratefully yours, Monica