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You got it, it's a giant plush turtle Nikki got me after the plush bear wore out. I have this stupid sleep disorder, and the cozy comfortable cuddle object convinces my mind I'm not going to be murdered in my sleep and I can relax and drift off. Brains are such funny things. But he's soft, cuddly, and awesome and when Nikki gets up in the morning he makes sure I have my turtle becuase he's probably fallen out of bed during the night. In the fall we like to hang out on the couch under the soft blankets with the dog and watch movies all cozied up, it's awesome! It's the only blanket time the dog gets, she's not allowed near the bed because she eats the bedding. X_X We got these new, giant, super plush beach towels too, and that feeling wrapping up in one just after getting out of the pool is amazing. People are always looking for the 'big dramatic moments' but it's the little ones that have a lasting, every day effect in my opinion.

Because comfort is awesome. Whether it's a favorite nightgown, cozy blanket, or a turtle plush (don't judge, I need my turtle plush to sleep!) there is nothing like physical comfort and coziness.

Hi Bree, You got it exactly. I cherish those moments, and on Thursday evening that was exactly what I felt, cozy and comfortable. I've always been like that, loving curling up and tucking in. My mother told me that I loved the satin edging on my baby blanket so much that I simply wore it out. I don't judge your turtle plush whatsoever. But I have no idea what it is! I am giggling to myself at the moment, thinking of a plush green blanket shaped like a turtle, or a stuffed turtle that you can hug and curl up with. Getting cozy is a reason I love it when the weather gets chilly. Especially when the wind picks up (not too much) and the bushes and trees are swaying, cold air blowing through the windows. It's wonderful to wear a warmer nightgown and add a comforter to the bed. Emma

Hi Chantel, thank you for your kind support. I think I miscommunicated in my post or otherwise made you think that wearing a nightgown to bed is unusual for me. I do it often, actually, but less so in the summer when it's so warm. And I have quite a wardrobe of feminine clothing that, here again, I wear at home when the mood strikes me which is more often when it's more chilly. I do sometimes wear women's underwear when I go out but I've otherwise not gone out dressed. For some reason it's not a priority for me. Sure, I'd like to, but then again I'd want to present completely and as well as I could and that seems like it would add so much work to it! I think it's terrific that you are comfortable going out as you describe. I think it's people like you, Steph, and others here who go out and about freely presenting however you would like that put real human selves in front of the cisgender population, letting them see for themselves that there's nothing at all to worry or concern themselves about. Emma

Just want to let you know I am still here and with you. Yes I started wearing clear nail varnish and mascara first and no one really said anything. I was already wearing girl jeans and underwear. After a while I thought ok and started wearing a little pink lipstick and light brown polish on my toes and stii.no one said anything. Some people just stared a bit longer working out whatever but I have had no big issues out and about. Friends and family however. Some needed time and some still feel uncomfortable. I was told some really negative stuff but it seemed to be more about them than me, not about how I felt or looked but it did make me feel that I was fooling myself and perhaps I should go back. I am pleased I haven't and I now feel a lot more comfortable. I don't ever want to go back. So to you Emma and all my friends, go girls and live your truth. XXX

Hoping all's well. Chantel

Hiya Michele. It Is Great to hear from You Sweetheart. I hope that Your Check-Up and Result's, give You a Positive Answer, rather than a Negative One. Darling Girl, You mentioned about Your Gender. Darling, I understand precisely what Intersexed is. I have a Personal Friend who is Intersexed. Michele, You ARE Michele, and that is what is important. If Other People don't like it Honey, That is Their Problem. Sweetheart, You describe Your Body Part/Part's exactly how You want to Honey. I have looked at Your 6 latest Photo's. You have got some very cheeky look's on Your Pretty Face. Michele, the Photo with You and Your Friend, taken just hour's before Your surgery is Lovely. ( 2 Lovely Young Ladies together. ). Michele, You Know that You are in My thought's. I Wish You All The Very Best Wishes, for Your Check-Up and Result's. Take Care Sweetheart, and Big Hugs. Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx

Hi everyone! We're doing great, Nikki has responded to the Zoloft exceedingly well and continues with this therapy, although they bumped it down to monthly since he's doing so great. And we had a wild summer packed full of all things fun. (and i also managed not to explode and actually made the fireworks at the fourth of july this year!). I have 8 more working days, then I"m outta the job from hell. Nikki continues to look for a new job, but being back on an overall even keel has returned to his I like my job, just not my coworkers overall feeling about it and is doing fine. I'm mad at the library for not hiring him, I think he would have loved working there! Oh my gosh STeph, that is insane heat. The worst we hit was 98 degrees Fahrenheit, which my phone tells me is 36.7 celcius. I swear the pool is the reason we made it through this summer without hospitalization for heat stroke, the humidity has been weirdly insane for the lack of rain that fell this year. I've spent summers here since I was 8, and lived here full time since I was 23, and only in the last three years as the lawn ever crunched when you walked on it. Being so close to the great lakes it rained a LOT. My asthma is holding off great, summer makes me almost like a person with normally functioning lungs! I love summer. It's winter where things get...unpleasant. Nikki job hunts in Florida too, since I actually loved it there and it's warm all year round, but unlikely that he'll actually find anything, jobs like people already in the area. But a Bree's gotta dream, right? And don't worry about my hydration, you should see the giant water drinking thing I walk around with. it holds a little over a liter, and I fill it up and suck on it. Good for the diet and the hydration both, I"m always really full of water. I joke it's why I float in the pool so well, neutral bouyancy with all the water inside!

Ahh thank you Emma, sorry I got the wrong end of the stick. Big hugs. X

Hiya Emma. My Favourite Nightie, is a Pretty Pink one, with White Lace Edging. I also have a Favourite Pair of Pyjamas, which are White with Red Flowers on them. I have just bought a Pretty Pink Bra, with matching Pretty Pink Knickers. I have a Blue Bra, and Several Black Bra's with matching Black Knickers. I just Love My Female Undies and Clothes. I have just started using Eye Shadow, but, I have been using Lipstick; Nail-Varnish; and Mascara; for Month's. Emma, whatever feels right for You Young Lady, is right. It Is just Lovely, to fall asleep in a Lovely Nightie or Female Pyjamas. I Am wearing My Favourite Pretty Pink Nightie now. Emma, Take Care Sweetheart, and having Our TGGuide Community, with such Wonderful Friend's as Yourself; Chantel; Michael; Monica; Karen; Stephani; Christie G; Nikki and Briannah; Veronica and Violet; and So Many More; I feel so Lucky, having such Lovely Friend's. Emma, Stay Happy, With My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx

Hi Steph and Chantel, Thank you for your kind thoughts. I know you're offering sincere support. Last night, like tonight (!) I was just feeling good in my nightgown and was inspired to share those feelings. It's wondrous and delightful that such a little thing can make me feel so good at times. It's such fun, too, to share that joy with friends like you. I'm so grateful that I came across TG Guide and that we have our community. XXXOOOXXX Emma

Hi Emma, Steph is so right. I just want to support everything she says and share an understanding of where you're coming from. Big hugs. X

Hiya Emma. When I "Came-Out" as a Fully; Full-Time; Male-to-Female; Transitioning; Transsexual; over 15 1/2 Month's ago, a Few People asked Me, if Wearing Female Undies; Clothing; Footwear; and Nightwear; made Me feel Erotic; and/or Sexy ? The answer was, No ! Wearing Female Attire, just feels so Right. If I Am Not Wearing Dresses, then I Am Wearing Top's/Blouses and Skirt's, and Vica Versa. But it is just something, that to Me, comes Naturally. I use Female Washroom's/Bathroom's, ( and being Officially Registered Disabled, I can also use Disabled Facilities, if Female one's are Not available. ). Emma, Never think to Yourself, I should Not be Wearing a Nightie; etc., because if it feels right, then it is right. What I can say, is that Female Undies; Clothing; Footwear; and Nightwear; ARE so much nicer, and so much more comfortable, to wear. I enjoy colour coordinating as well, but sometimes it can also be fun, to wear something which clashes. I Love Wearing Make-Up, as well. Emma, enjoy Wearing what feels right to You Young Lady. If anyone says anything different, ignore Them. Emma, Take Care, Big Hugs; And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx

Hiya Michele. I Have been thinking of You, All Day Today Young Lady. I hope that the Operation Has Been a Success, and I Also Hope, that the Result is NOT bad news. Michele, Take Care Young Lady, And My Very Best Wishes Honey. Big Hugs, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx

Hi there So Monday I'm doing my hair professionally. What??? Doesn't mean I can't look better then usual for surgery. Might just meet my dream man. I'm super calm, he has gained some of my trust. Cheers And no I'm not drinking. Michele

Hiya Michele. Darling Girl, My Very Sincere Good Wishes, for Tuesday Honey. I Am Keeping Everything Crossed for You. You Know that I WILL Be thinking of You on Tuesday. It Will be Good to get the Operation Done though Young Lady. Michele, Your Kind and Lovely Word's to Everyone, are So Sweet, and So Kind. Michele Sweetheart, Have A Good Weekend Young Lady. Good Luck; Take Care; Big Hugs; And My Very Best Wishes, Love Stephanie. xxxxxxxx

Very best wishes for you next Tuesday, and know that I will be thinking of you. Let us know how it goes. XXXOOOXXX Emma