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I'm so sad for the yellow, so many neat clothes for both Nikki and I in that color...and it goes horribly wrong. LOL It makes us look like we have some form of severe jaundice going on. The dress arrived, and it fits nicely, despite my panic fears because I ordered a size smaller than I usually do becuase I have lost some more weight adn ignoring that voice in my head I followed their size charts after Nikki took measurements. I have an awkward body where my shirt size is different from my pant size, and this can get really tricky with dresses, but I tried it on yesterday and it works beautifully. Although it weights a ton, it's been so long I forgot how much sequins WEIGH when the entire garment is covered in them. Nikki has been teasing me that I loaded it with a lead lining. I think I would fall over if I tried a full length sequin covered gown. I can't imagine how heavy that would be with all that many more.

Yeah, stick with green hair, and avoid yellow. Rock the sequins, girl!

Dear Michele, Emma and Karen, Personally, I try to date women (I am a cisgender Lesbian) who are no more than 10 years my junior or senior, because I like to be with a person who is from the same generation as I am. Also, I prefer transwomen who identify as Lesbians because they seem to try harder at relationships than cisgender Lesbians. Still do date cisgender Lesbians. My one true love of 10 years, with a transwoman who identified as a Lesbian, we had a very cerebral love (she was a brilliant and very kind woman) and I would say that we would both identify as demisexuals, which are people who fall in love with another's CHARACTER rather than their physical looks or sexual prowess. Would love to find such a woman again! Yours truly, Monica

Emma you wouldn't believe this, my grandmother and grandfather from my mom's side takes the cake. The age gap was 26 years, with my grandfather being the oldest. Funny thing is you outlived all his wives and she was his last wife. He passed away when my mom was 18 years old and she passed away when my mom was about 2 years old. So yes age really is nothing but a number in my family. The oldest sister takes 2nd place, with her husband whom was 24 years older then her, and 3 years older then my mom. Then my parents take 3rd position, 17 years age difference with my dad being the older one. So normally it is the men in my family that is the older party, and I would be setting a record on the female side. My oldest brother though was 10 years older then his wife, and he passed away a few weeks after my passing out of police college. Emma and Karen, thanks for the wishes, but we still waiting on the notification that we can wear our ranks, even though they backdating it to last year when we officially had the qualifications. On being an inspiration, I'm just living my life according to what I need to and how I see it fit for anyone to live their lives. Confirmed after this that this young guy was screwing around and gave the option of stopping as the person he is screwing on the sidelines isn't one of my favorite people, therefore broke it off. Weirdest part is, his friends are actually sticking up for me and saying that he should've known not to play with a good thing. So broke it off without shedding a tear, as tears would be to much of a hassle for me to waste on a person that is a cheater. So hope this doesn't deter anyone from dating, not all men are cheaters and can't be brushed with the same brush. We actually have good guys out there that doesn't mind our differences, because it's not the differences that makes us, but the soul of the person that determines if we are worth loving or not. I just got played and remembered at the same time, that I'm still in the controllers seat and I have the choice to allow it to continue or to put a stop to it. Love Michele Xoxo

Congratulations on your promotion!!!

Dear Michele, So good to hear from you! I love your updates, on dating, your hair, and especially, your promotion. I think your promotion to sergeant is so important for you as well as for your colleagues and the public, to see a transgender woman as a professional and viable member of society. It's people like you who are paving the way to everyone else, especially those who are much younger. But really, I'm also so happy to hear about your fun on the dating scene. A year younger? So what! My wife is 7 years older than me... Really, age is not that big a deal. Now 17 years difference is a lot, at least in my book. :-) Best wishes, Emma