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Well thats the way to go. There is no easy way. I have lost maybe one or two friends but mostly they have been very supportive. I think its much better coming from me than them finding out from others. Good luck and hope everything goes well. X Chantel.

Good advise from two very wise ladies. Welcome to TG Guide. -Mike

Dear Emma, Good for you! Thank you for checking with everyone who may be on your FB timeline, so they don't get a surprise. Felt freed when I came out because I couldn't take the stress "covering my tracks." Not into labels, but being a Lesbian is part of my core identity. Your friend, Monica

Congrats :-) It's funny, I came out to my therapist first too - well, I came out to myself first, then the next day to my therapist. We were talking about that in the support group that I facilitate, the idea of coming out in concentric circles to people - starting with those closer, and who you feel will be supportive, and then moving outward from there. So far my sister is the only relationship "casualty" that I've experienced. xoxo Chrissy